Ftm feeling lost

[wintercutie23]

I'm 14weeks +3 since I first found out I was expecting I was excited and nervous.  My boyfriend has yet to show any emotions.  I'm getting more excitement from his family. We have are ups and down been together for almost 5yrs. I feel like he's still stuck at she's pregnant and still doesn't believe it. This feeling leaves me at lost depressed at times. Should I consider thinking as a single mom.  

[wintercutie23]

Justine does it make you feel depressed when he shows no Interest. How are you coping with it?

[TCGirl_422]

Give him time

[wintercutie23]

No he wasn't  there  for my first ultrasound die to work.  But I hope  he's able to  come to my second one which is at 18 weeks.  Yes it's his first child and I just find myself at lost when I mention the baby.  

Do you have any suggestions on what to do with his shock?
Thank you guys for responding

[JustineBreOnna]

My bf is doing the same thing, but I don't see how he can still be so shocked BC he already has a 5 year old daughter..but he doesn't talk about baby stuff, doesn't show interest, doesn't go to appointments, nothing. I've been thinking the same thing

[ladyy_cece20]

No give him some time. . He'll come around. He just still in shock that's all. Have he been to your doctor to here the baby heartbeat or have you got a ultrasound yet? He probably need to see the ultrasound or listen to the heartbeat.  But it's normal If it's his first child. Good luck and congrats