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Help with infertilty in NJ

This site really doesn't help. Any one know another site with people who actually read and respond? I feel desperate.
I just took an at home pregnancy test and its negative. Today is Wednesday and my period is due sat to mon and I already felt cramps. I couldn't wait anymore so I got a pregnancy test and its negative.
I wonder what went wrong now? Did my egg drop? Is there something wrong with the 1 tube I have left although the hsg said its clear? Or was it just bad timing? Not Gods time?
So many questions can drive you crazy and I know this, yet I doing this. I've even resorted to talking out loud to myself. Am I crazy?
It's not the sperm. The sperm is great. I feel like a fat LOSER for not being able to give my husband a ******* child.
Wow, what a pity party I'm having and trust me I hate pity parties,
Go ahead comment. It doesn't change anything.
Until I try again.
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if im pregnant i will keep the baby..i love babies, im just not ready to be a mother. I woud love to contact you to ask for advice but i dont know how lol, im new to this forum.  
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Thank you. I feel better already. I posted this under pregnancy and not infertilty. Thank you again.
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I posted this on the wrong site. It's suppose to be under infertilty not pregnancy. I've tried for 6 yrs to be pregnant. Please email me your situation? I would do anything to be pregnant. Hopefully don't get An abortion? ***@****
Please contact me.
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Hi there,
This is the first time I've seen your name. I'm sorry you aren't getting the support you need here. Some sections of this forum are quite quiet and the pregnancy 18-34 really does seem like the best place to get some replies.
Sounds like you have gone to the doctor and discussed things already and had some check ups.
I am sorry to hear you are having a difficult time. How long have you guys been trying now?
You are not a fat loser and I wish you wouldn't be so hard on yourself. Sounds like you are really putting stress on yourself to conceive and that doesn't help you or your relationship. Perhaps talking to someone would help ease your stress? And if you ask me a pity party here or there doesn't hurt either. So long as you are able to pick yourself up afterwards.
I am sorry I do not know of a better site to visit. I hope you find it thought. I used fertility friend . com for basal temperatures and I think they have a community there if you would like to check it out. I never used it but you never know. : )
Best of luck next month!!!
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I understand having a pity party... I'm having one too. But for the opposite reason, I don't want to be pregnant. Anyway I had a negative test too and I'm hoping I'm late on my period for some other reason. Anyway, I hope maybe you test is wrong and you are with child and I hope mine is right and I'm not.
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