Help!

[LuvinU]

I need help!, Suggestions please..
So  I got pregnant. I"m About to turn 20, I already have a babyboy. The most amazing gift God has given me. I just got out of Active Status Nov09, I have my own Apartment, College for criminal justice and  Receptionist. Serving in the National Guard as well. I'm 5weeks, pregnant by the man of my life, not my first babys dad. My family is a bit against of me having it because am way too young to have 2kids and my dreams will go down the drain. I was planing to start ROTC to become a Lieutenant then serve back on Active and Come back and work my way up to a homicide detective. Do you think having my second baby will stop me from accomplishing my goals in life? I know is going to be harder, but What can i do? I want it and so does my boyfriend, but I want to offer my kids more then what i was given. I want them to have everything in life that thet desire.

[jrobertson20]

I would say keep it.  Just because you have two kids doesn't mean you won't be able to accomplish your goals and dreams.  It may take you a little longer to get there but you can do ANYTHING you want to and don't let anybody tell you any different.  It sounds like your boyfriend is supportive and will be there which will be a huge help for you.  Congratulations and don't let people tell you what to do or that you can't reach your dreams.  I know you can.

[rnfe2]

I think that it is possible for you to still continue on with your dreams. The ONLY reason a baby stops people from accomplishing what they want is cuz the people feel like they have to be with baby all the time, if your bf wants the baby and you can both take care of it then have it and continue with your goals and dreams. I don't think it will mess you up any. Good luck