My family base in Lagos I school at kwara state .
Ahhh Sweetie. That's so hard! My gosh, you must feel overwhelmed with sadness and worry! And feel sort of 'stuck'. When is your baby due? Are you getting your prenatal care? Please take care of yourself right now. I'm sure this is highly stressful. I have to ask about what other support you have. I'm not sure how this will go with this person. He's got a girlfriend which has to be so painful and make you angry. How dare he treat you like that. I know you think you need him but what other options do you have? Do you have parents? Siblings? Aunts, grandparents, good friends? I am so happy you work! That helps you financially. If you worry about finances, do you live in the United States? There are things in place if you are below a certain income line to help and it includes childcare once the baby is born. Are you, I hate to ask, planning to keep the baby? I'm assuming so. But there is adoption if not. Overall, I"m not sure how much you can count on the baby's father for your support. I think you may need to problem solve what things will look like and where you can go or what you can do for support if he isn't in the picture. I'm so sorry. I feel for you.