I don't know what to do

[Kaity0117]

i am 25 weeks 6days in a few hours and I have been thinking a lot about the birthing process... I have a midwife and I want to do this naturally this is my first baby I am 19 and I have anxiety. So does my boyfriend and his is worse than mine....

My question is about people being in the room....? My bf wants his mom there and I want mine but I don't want his.... His mom has stolen from me and I am angry at her after finding out that she used to beat my bf when he was little and also drank while she was pregnant. I don't know what to do cause I want him there and he says his mom will help him with his anxiety so he can stay in the room but I am really uncomfortable with having her in the room even if the other circumstances weren't there...

How is this supposed to be decided? Who gets to be there or not? Is that up to me and me alone? Or is my boyfriend a majority say in this?

[moonchild93]

That is 100% completely YOUR choice

[chunky_punky]

Your choice you need to be as relaxed and stress free as possible no needed aggravation tell your Dr and nurses who yu want in the rm you won't have to say anything else they will make sure who ever is unwanted leaves at the right time