Thank you for all of your advice you ladies have made me feel alot better Thank You
I would just try to get to know her as a person and maybe don't talk about the baby for a bit...you know since it's touchy subject with her.....if she wants to talk about it let her bring it up...I know hard not to talk about your baby when you're so excited....but let her get to know you before talking about the baby. Just be nice and when she tries to provoke you just keep your calm and be kind to her back.
I understand what you all are saying but its hard for me.. I have this need for people to like me and I can't stand thats she doesn't or may not like me. Matt's ex and him were together for 3 years so his mom and her are still close I guess. I don't mind that ... that's her business but its not right for her to run to his mom and tell her something like that. MAtt told me not to worry about it but I just don't want to cause any problems. Im hoping she will come around
Yes we were suppose to go out to dinner this weekend but now its seems useless.. his dad is in iraq so I dont get the chance to meet him until June. What do I say to his mom? Shes upset either way. She doesnt think that a yr into our relationship we should be having kids and we are both still in college. We both hold down full time jobs as well. I know its not up to her but i kind of wanting her blessing you know. At least we have my mom she is there for us no matter what and I really hope his mom comes around
Pink you don't need her stress while your pregnant... it's not good for the baby. Seems like Matt has made his decision. When something like this happens, realistically the only thing you can do is sit back and wait for the baby to be born. If you truly have no worries, tell her you will get a perterinity test, to prove it. This will put anyone's fears aside.
Of course the Ex is gonna make a play she is probably jealous. Why is his mom talking to her anyways? Thats just creepy.
Relax and take a deep breath...Sometimes as parents we over react without even thinking things through. Give her time to absorb the news. She is probably more hurt that she didn't hear it from her own son. If she doesn't come around it's her loss. This is about the baby, you and Matt. Good luck and keep your head up.
wow I would first off ignor her comments and don't feel bad about your BF sticking up for you and fighting with is mother. You should be proud of him....and I don't know why people can be so cruel have you thought about maybe getting to know his mother and maybe she could see the type of person you truely are....