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I feel alone ..

Well this is my 4th pregnancy i was ecstatic at first well over all really. My husband and I have been together for 6 years now. Overall we are fine with another baby. My husband works and supports us fine. But anyways.
Well since we found out i was expecting he didnt really say much he went threw all those normal emotion, mad/sad/confused. Im 27 weeks. Throughout this whole pregnancy he just doesnt really care, He doesnt rub my belly or even feel him move. The only sign of him caring is him not letting me drink Red bulls or take medication which i no better i would just ask to see if he would even show a simple sign of caring... When ever i feel bad im just stuck there to feel bad. he doesnt ask whats wrong the only thing he ever does say is "omfg theres always something wrong" ive even felt so horrible sometimes to call and send him messages and he just declines or never responds. But lately its been horrible! i started having nightmares of him cheating and he just doesnt pay any attention to me, hell tonight i went and laid mext to him and he lookd at me and said "wth are you doing " we ended up in an argument and i said "im sorry i dont look like the girls that hit u up, but i am a pregnant mother of 3." and hes like "yeah well they have kids to but they Still look good" my husband is huge smartass sometimes so i didn't take it seriously but after sitting here and putting it all together everything ive been threw within these 6 months of being pregnant i cant take it anymore, Im sorry for my rant but i have absolutely NO friends to talk to. Like mentioned im a stay at home mom, i keep to myself. but i cant seem to hold it anymore /:
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Im just terrified that hes cheating. we had a conversation around Christmas where he came out and said that i need to start "taking care of myself". Im 92 pounds befor pregnancy and currently 102 pounds while 27 weeks pregnant so im not over weight i look find im just tierd all the time. i mean with being pregnant and the kids its like who has time to get up and fix themselves up cause i sure dont! lol.. i know i just need to talk to him about it after are argument he came back inside and started making funny faces at me but i told him to leave me alone. maybe it's just my pregnancy hormones and im over reacting. but some stuff can be extremely hurtful! After my shower and letting out tears i guess i feel better. but men can seriously be insensitive sometimes ):
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Aww I'm sorry you have to go through this momma I can just imagine how it feels but just think you are a mother of 3 plus one on the way and you have to be strong for all of them I'm sure he will come to his senses soon he's probably just scared of having to support one more baby you know what I mean but if that's not the case maybe I suggest try talking to him about how you feel and that you need support from him not all moms look their best when they are pregnant especially after having 3 kids such as yourself tell him he needs to realize you have given him the most precious things in life which are yalls children just sit down and have a talk hope everything works out for you :) keep your head up
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