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I need sex...

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and my sex drive is out of this world. I feel like I can have an orgasm just thinking about my husband but he doesn't seem like he wants to do it with me. Before I got pregnant sex was everyday but not anymore and it gets me very angry. I think hes scared he'll hurt the baby I tell him it won't but that still doesn't seem to work. What should I do ladies and what do you think the problem is honestly?
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2133163 tn?1350518235
Lol mine is the opposite. I don't have a sex drive at all but my husband wants it whenever he can.
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Maybe try some nice sexy lingere Men  and still men they cant say no if your look so hot haha. That would be my advice.
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I am 16 weeks and I want it all the time . My bf not so much. He will kiss and tease me all day and says later but never does just goes to bed. It hurts. I have talked to him and just get the same answer if you dont like it you can find someone that will do it all the time. We have sex once a week if that. I know how you feel
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Do it ur self. Im 32-5days and i cant get enough. My kids dad left and im happy doing it on my own..  its easier.. lol
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Thanks ladies u were lots of help and it's cool that someone out there feels the same way:) our some what the same.
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Girl everyday? Dont feel bad im only 8w and my husband feels the same as urs. But i lost my sex drive, just dont seem interested. So i dont care that we don't. I like cuddling anyway.
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Lol I'm the save way & I'm only 10 weeks 4 days. I can't.get enough of it!
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Baby will be fine. Lots of padding. Esp at 20 wks its still small.
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I guess so but can sex or rough sex hurt the baby?
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1972798 tn?1355549267
Just like you said he is afraid of hurting baby our you. Its a common thing for guys tho. Talk to him and let him know you need it. Thats all you can do
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