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I really need someone to talk to (please someone read)

Im 19 and currently 22 weeks pregnant. My husband is in the military and just got deployed and im all alone in my new apartment. Im so depressed and all I do is lay in bed and cry I have nobody, no friends and no family really. I just need someone to talk to. This is the worst feeling ever and im so alone all the time. I cant get a job, I cant go to school and nobody talks to me at all. Im slowly going crazy and ive already been on antidepressants before and I got put in a mental hospital for trying to kill myself a few years ago. I dont know what to do. I feel so hopeless and theres nothing I can do. :',(
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Dnt feel like ppl will judge who cares what they have to say I'm sure they aren't perfect... Just try to reach out to his command and see if they have anything they can offer you or just go on base and ask around everything will work out fine... And just give school a try and use that as a countdown till the baby is born or until ur hubby gets back. Everything will be ok you just have to step out your comfort zone a lil bit : )
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3588173 tn?1357317184
My husband is in the marine corps, and was deployed for our first pregnancy and the birth of our son :/ I'm here if you need someone to talk to, I know  what you are going through
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Awn im the same way!!! It gets easier when baby gets here bc youll have a partner in crime. =)
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Im in Tyler tx right now but hes in Norfolk Virginia. Hes being deployed to Bahrain. And I feel like I cant go to school cause the semester is almost over and I feel like people judge me cause im pregnant. Idk. And I hate going out in public alone. Im just so used to having him here. :',(
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Sweet hes a sailor =) n trust me your going to want your personal space when baby comes. Maybe make a dinner and invite them over. Sometimes people try not to invade in space. Make them know your lonely and would like company. Or join a club of some sort. This app is a start! =) youll find lots of nice people n lots of support
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I use to be in the military and I know how hard it can be for moms when their husbands deploy especially young moms...depending on where your stationed they have groups where moms can get together. Do you have a family readiness officer? If so contact them and ask for some help they will be more than willing. If you can't get in contact with them try your husbands command and ask if they can be of any assistance. Can I ask why you can't go to school? With your husbands benefits you could take one or two classes just to get u out of the house and meet new ppl..
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Hes in the navy. And no im not far from family but they dont ever come see me and I almost wanna move back in with my parents just so im not alone all the time.
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7510877 tn?1393183298
Hey my fiancé used to be in the military so I know how it feels, you can always talk to me. I have a kik search me under denia_prieto
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Awn sweety. Thats tough. Hold on tight. Firat off what branch is he in. Are you far from family?
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7998980 tn?1407262519
They have classes for pregnant women to take for nutrition and giving birth and all kinds of stuff . You should look into some of those classes because there you will meet other pregnant women and im sure they will talk to you . They even have group therapy sessions for pregnant women im sure that would help you , talking to other women who feel the same way you do , your bound to make friends . Talk to your dr and ask about these things they will tell you all about it . The hospital will give you a packet with lists of different things if you ask for it .
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