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I really want to rant!

I'm 32 weeks pregnant, and my boyfriend is still stuck playing league of legends, he is 24 years old, and all he does on is day off is play league, no matter how much I want him to go outside. Sometimes I feel like I made a mistake becoming pregnant with HIS child but at the same time I love him to death, he could be a sweetheart but when he is on league, he acts like a complete ***, but not toward other girls online.
I cannot wait for my baby boy to arrive and he cannot either, all his family is excited and so is mine, but his gaming habit is starting to annoy me a lot, even though I sometimes play league with him, which is rare. I use to be a gamer myself. anyone having this kind of problem? Lol
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Lol I don't know how long I could last, watching golf
Looooool. I know a lot of my family members and relatives love to golf, but I wouldn't be able to handle
It lol  hormones definitely does get you going for sure lol.
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Atleast yall have something exciting to watch..my hubby is obsessed with golf. At first it was cool...now just a pain in my behind. Lol but I know its his get away for when he gets off and wants to relax.  It still bugs me to the max sometimes.  Dang hormones.  Anyways. .good luck to all of u mommys :)
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Exactly, if he is not putting any effort or not even trying at all, it's definitely a time move out, take your baby with you, and be happy without someone who's unsupportive.
Babies are a lot of hard work, I'm sure, by they're also a bundle of joy, you deserve someone who actually will care for you and the baby, you're the momma. Mommas and the baby deserve to be treated with respect, care, moral support, and support for every other things.
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Mine doesn't work and I'm kicking him or because that's all he does. If I'm busting my behind 48-50 hours a week on my feet at work. You need to do the same. I can't deal with it anymore and I did post something a while back on it. He's leaving this week when his brother gets in from offshore. It's time. Because I've already started buying for my baby and if you can't support me or at least try to show you care then I don't f~~~~~~ing need you.
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Thanks you guys, that made me feel much better lol, my parents are like "when is he going to stop playing video games and actually focus on the baby" so my parents and my boyfriend is stressing me out, mostly because of the hormones. it's definitely a motherly instinct to prepare so early, but because my boyfriend and I are moving in together, he needs to get his a** off the computer lol, he needs daylight too for sure haha, now that we finally have a lot of sunshine, considering Washington state, where we get all the rain. Hardly able to exercise outside :"( lol  He needs to understand the fluctuation of the hormones, I think he freaks out every time I freak out haha xD
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My boyfriend is 24 I'm 36 weeks. He isn't a gamer but a sports freek he'll watch tennis or football as much as possible he'll ever watch the football then highlights then the commentary and then be.on his phone 24/7 checking other games. It drives me mad! I just take control and when we go out for walks I try and go somewhere theres no signal so he can't check the scores or be on his phone. He does watch it on the laptop alot so I can watch t.v. But still annoying or on his days off normally a Saturday he'll want to go play tennis. I just find it easier to tell him that were going out for.the day as he's not good at deciding what to do.
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My boyfriend is autistic and video games are a huge part of his life. It drives him insane if he doesn't play at least once a day. He also has routines which I cant suddenly alter either, so if we need to go shopping and he's mid-game on Call of Duty, the game comes first and I have to wait lol. Its really hard.
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My husband plays a lot of call of duty and it used to bother me how much he plays because it didn't seem like we spent any time together. I used to play with  him before we had our first, but since then the only way I can play is if our son is sleeping. You've got to remember he's about to be a dad and it might be stressing him out a bit so he's destressing by playing. This is a big change for both of you! Also, he's still pretty young, I'm 24 as well and I would be gaming too. Lol. Don't forget your hormones are probably a little whacky. I know with my last pregnancy EVERYTHING drove me nuts when I got to week 30.
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