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1765904 tn?1314133626

I was fingered by my boyfriend can i be pregnant?

I was fingered by my boyfriend four weeks ago, and he was messing with himself before he fingered me, and he said he had a clump of sperm on his finger when he did it, Im eleven days late on my period and im so so so worried i could be pregnant, If anyone could please give me an answer then please do :( Im worried sick ...x
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187316 tn?1386356682
Sperm cannot survive long when exposed to air. The odds of pregnancy are like .01% if you are concerned take a test since your already late. Another thing that cab make you late is stress among other things.
1710194 tn?1308931794
I would say there is a very good chance you could be pregnant. If you are already late for your period take a pregnancy test, this is the only way to know for sure.
1609417 tn?1389642778

I don't think ur period's delay is caused by this incident althu it is possible but chances, in my opinion, r low. there r many reasons behind a late period other than pregnancy. maybe stress, change in diet, antibiotics anything is the reason. take a HPT n c what it tells u.
1765904 tn?1314133626
Thank you for your help it means alot to me to have a few answers :) My boyfriend went with a mate to get two tests today so im going to find out tomorrow weather i am or not, But these were such a good help :)
1765904 tn?1314133626
Im so worried about this, My tummy is really hard and i keep needing to poop all the while, are these signs? And my Boyfriend has just told me there was no 'clump' of sperm just a little dribble of it on his finger, does this make the situation any worse? Please help, the last help was great...
1194973 tn?1385503904
Not particular. For one, your stomach doesn't get hard especially after 3 weeks. It's never truly "hard" unless you're having a contraction. Frequent bowel movements can be brought on by stress (which you're doing) virus, or just eating something that didn't agree with you. You have nothing to worry about, so try not to. To get pregnant in this manner would be very difficult.
1765904 tn?1314133626
Thank you, the tummy part was a great help :)
1765904 tn?1314133626
Well todays the day, im taking a test, i'll let you know if its possible.
1751420 tn?1311995661
if u aint preggers then go to the doctors and get checked out by a doctor u never know something else maybe going on and needs attention
1765904 tn?1314133626
Well you'll be amazed to know, it IS possible, Im nearly five weeks pregnant, Thank you for your help and advice :)
1751420 tn?1311995661
well congrats to u on the news i hope this is what u wanted
1765904 tn?1314133626
Thank you :) but not really what we wanted but neither of us believe in abortion or adoption so it looks like we're stuck with the baby for life now :)
1712422 tn?1443337501
Lil Mama, I hope that the future brings you lots of happiness…Even though you are young I'm sure that you will see that this baby will be one of the greatest things to happen to you.

I will be here for support if you need support

:)
1765904 tn?1314133626
Thank you, Kind words like that are what help us through this mess, We will love our baby with all our hearts but we wish it was one of those things that would of waited, we plan to have other children by having sex not by being fingered, And not right after our first either, Thank you for your help and support :)
1710194 tn?1308931794
Well, this might not be the perfect timing for you but it's great to hear that you are both being so mature about this. Good luck and stay positive! I hope you have a healthy happy little baby!
1765904 tn?1314133626
Thank you, I hope our little baby comes out healthy as well :) Thank you for your lovely comment :)
1712422 tn?1443337501
Well I guess you can be considering a "virgin Mary"….this baby obviously is a miracle baby so cherish every moment and I know that maybe timing was off but there's a reason…Virgin Mary in the Bible got pregnant at the age of 14 and she didnt have sex so maybe it's a sign of something super special :)
1765904 tn?1314133626
Thats a lovely thing to say, and your very right it is a miracle, but we'll slowly learn to love our little miracle at 14 and 16 :') Thank you :) x
1765904 tn?1314133626
Although im underage, we decided to have safe sex today so we could tell people it happened by un safe sex instead of the real situation cause we dont think they will believe us, sadly :( i feel very daft doing this but at the same time it was bound to happen at some point and we chose now.
187316 tn?1386356682
Just to be on the safe side I'd retest with a pink dye test or have a doctor do an ultrasound. I've taken blue dye tests which turned what appeared to be positive only to have them actually be negative.
1765904 tn?1314133626
I have done a doctors pregnancy test and the results are coming back in a day so we'll know for sure, even though the two pregnancy tests and they both showed positive, i have also brought another HPT to take when i need to pee so i'll take that pretty soon and then we'll know, as its a different HPT from the first two.
1752977 tn?1418221796
Good luck, keep us posted
1765904 tn?1314133626
Thank you :) I will do dont worry :) x
1765904 tn?1314133626
We've decided on baby names, but we dont want to know the sex, If its a baby girl we're calling her Candice-Lilly, And if its a little boy we're naming him after my grandpa that i never got to meet, Dougie-James x
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