I was fingered by my boyfriend can i be pregnant?

[AmieeLiegh1997]

I was fingered by my boyfriend four weeks ago, and he was messing with himself before he fingered me, and he said he had a clump of sperm on his finger when he did it, Im eleven days late on my period and im so so so worried i could be pregnant, If anyone could please give me an answer then please do :( Im worried sick ...x

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Thank you :) Yes we were and its a yes

[therese101]

They are great names. Were you able to go to the doctor and confirm pregnancy

[AmieeLiegh1997]

We've decided on baby names, but we dont want to know the sex, If its a baby girl we're calling her Candice-Lilly, And if its a little boy we're naming him after my grandpa that i never got to meet, Dougie-James x

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Thank you :) I will do dont worry :) x

[amy8702]

Good luck, keep us posted

[AmieeLiegh1997]

I have done a doctors pregnancy test and the results are coming back in a day so we'll know for sure, even though the two pregnancy tests and they both showed positive, i have also brought another HPT to take when i need to pee so i'll take that pretty soon and then we'll know, as its a different HPT from the first two.

[alaysha]

Just to be on the safe side I'd retest with a pink dye test or have a doctor do an ultrasound. I've taken blue dye tests which turned what appeared to be positive only to have them actually be negative.

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Although im underage, we decided to have safe sex today so we could tell people it happened by un safe sex instead of the real situation cause we dont think they will believe us, sadly :( i feel very daft doing this but at the same time it was bound to happen at some point and we chose now.

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Thats a lovely thing to say, and your very right it is a miracle, but we'll slowly learn to love our little miracle at 14 and 16 :') Thank you :) x

[LovemyKids86]

Well I guess you can be considering a "virgin Mary"….this baby obviously is a miracle baby so cherish every moment and I know that maybe timing was off but there's a reason…Virgin Mary in the Bible got pregnant at the age of 14 and she didnt have sex so maybe it's a sign of something super special :)

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Thank you, I hope our little baby comes out healthy as well :) Thank you for your lovely comment :)

[KitKat71688]

Well, this might not be the perfect timing for you but it's great to hear that you are both being so mature about this. Good luck and stay positive! I hope you have a healthy happy little baby!

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Thank you, Kind words like that are what help us through this mess, We will love our baby with all our hearts but we wish it was one of those things that would of waited, we plan to have other children by having sex not by being fingered, And not right after our first either, Thank you for your help and support :)

[LovemyKids86]

Lil Mama, I hope that the future brings you lots of happiness…Even though you are young I'm sure that you will see that this baby will be one of the greatest things to happen to you.

I will be here for support if you need support

:)

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Thank you :) but not really what we wanted but neither of us believe in abortion or adoption so it looks like we're stuck with the baby for life now :)

[sockpig]

well congrats to u on the news i hope this is what u wanted

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Well you'll be amazed to know, it IS possible, Im nearly five weeks pregnant, Thank you for your help and advice :)

[sockpig]

if u aint preggers then go to the doctors and get checked out by a doctor u never know something else maybe going on and needs attention

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Well todays the day, im taking a test, i'll let you know if its possible.

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Thank you, the tummy part was a great help :)

[Clysta]

Not particular. For one, your stomach doesn't get hard especially after 3 weeks. It's never truly "hard" unless you're having a contraction. Frequent bowel movements can be brought on by stress (which you're doing) virus, or just eating something that didn't agree with you. You have nothing to worry about, so try not to. To get pregnant in this manner would be very difficult.

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Im so worried about this, My tummy is really hard and i keep needing to poop all the while, are these signs? And my Boyfriend has just told me there was no 'clump' of sperm just a little dribble of it on his finger, does this make the situation any worse? Please help, the last help was great...

[AmieeLiegh1997]

Thank you for your help it means alot to me to have a few answers :) My boyfriend went with a mate to get two tests today so im going to find out tomorrow weather i am or not, But these were such a good help :)