I'm concerned about my MIL

[liltbits_mommy]

My fiancée and I have decided that she will not be apart of our baby's life in any way shape or form. My fiancée and I sat down one day and talked about her involvement with Lil Bit (our nickname for the baby until we know the gender) I am thankful for her taking me in when she did but ever since that happened she's been a butt monkey (lack of better word) towards me. She's called me uncalled for names and forth, she's done multiple things to my fiancée and I and his sister and her fiancée. We can't talk to her at all she always tries to argue and scream and yell at me. I feel bad for her because she has control issues but it's like she doesn't care about anyone else but herself.

[liltbits_mommy]

Thank you and I'll try.

[Jessicah_214]

Wow That Must Of Been Harsh. But Good Thing He Was At Your Side Keeping Your Head Up Y'all Deserve To Be Together Keep Fighting For Y'alls Love. Sooner Or Later Your MIL Will Accept You & Apologize For The Harshness. Have Faith That It Will Get Better

[liltbits_mommy]

Yeah I know. My fiancée and I have been together for 6 years now. We've been through so much more than my mil knows. My adopted mom forbid me from seeing him. When I turned 18 I tried my best to keep my head up at school. I was bullied for being held back my 10th grade year. He was the only one I could truly talk to about all of it. My adopted mom and dad turned their heads and didn't realize how much pain I was going through.

[Jessicah_214]

Wow That's Harsh For You Mil To Say That To You. But Good Thing Your Fiance Agrees With You.

[liltbits_mommy]

Dang... My fiancée hates his mom. Sorry to say it, but his mom has said to me I needed to show her proof that I was pregnant and that if I was I needed to get out of his life. I'm 18+1, she acts like I'm her daughter. I stood up to her and pretty much said look if I am lying you can't make a decision for you own son who is 17+1. She left at that my fiancée agreed.

[Cassi1992]

Sounds alot like my MIL. I'm sorry you have to go through this. It's hard and painful in a way to think about it.
But at least your Fiancè agreed to this my husband is a mama's boy so he thought i was being selfish when i told him everything his mother has done and said to me when she came over every day.