I a 41 and have had milk since I was 19 I also was the same with periods are u on a contraceptive as I'm on depo it stopped my periods the second time I got on it but still have milk my doctor said to bind myself with bandage and didn't seem worried but I don't do it I've been told its probly hormones plus I have high estrogen
You need to see a doctor about this.
Irregular periods that are as painful as your describe along with nipple discharge indicates a medical problem that needs to be investigated - a hormonal imbalance is a possibility.
Let you mom know so you can get the appropriate treatment. If you dont want to discuss it with her, can you ask to get an annual physical or something like that?
I responded to your post on the other maternal child forum.
i havent spoke to my mom yet but im really embarrassed and its in both but more in my right and its not a lot but its enough
I don't think its breast milk, is in both breasts? Can you seek medical advise? what did your mom say?