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5009178 tn?1369953775

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I don't(he's my ex bf) know what I should do about my baby's father. He is almost 19 years old and I am turning 21 soon. I am very independent and have my career my own car that I bought myself and I work 6 days a week making good money. He works at carls Jr which is okay with me at least he works.

Anyway.. before I got pregnant he would always hit me up for sex and ask me to stay the night with him and cuddle.. told me he still loved me and missed me and all that. Now after i find out i am pregnant he is very distant with me and seems as thiugh he wants nothing to do with me but does go to drs appts with me and is involved. Im just not sure what to think. I do miss him and he was supposed to stay with me this weekend as i will be home alone. He asked me why i wanted him to be with me and i told him i missed him. Then he suddenly changed his mind and told me that he doesnt know if hes going to now  and im tempted to just stop talking to him but idk. Any advice from you ladies would be greatly appreciated. Its just weird how before he was all over me and now all of a sudden he doesn't miss or love me anymore.
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5009178 tn?1369953775
Thank you ladies I hope so too:)
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4850939 tn?1370543309
Good luck girk hope it works out :)
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4838207 tn?1363917730
Well I hope he comes around :)
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5009178 tn?1369953775
Thank you I don't see or talk to him often I text him maybe a couple times a week and now I'm just going to stop and see what he does :)
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4838207 tn?1363917730
I agree with mommygg plus he's young so just give him space
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4850939 tn?1370543309
Maybe he is feeling a little over whemled try giving him some space dont call him or anything and im sure once he sees u dont really care he will come around good luck
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