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4181299 tn?1350704301

In need of a hug

Tonight i miscarried and can't understand why... I'm so hurt and really need some comfort... I'm in so much pain right and my head hurts really bad... Is headaches normal in miscarriages??? Don't know if i want to try again cause this really does hurt... :'(
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4181299 tn?1350704301
I have a 4yr old son this was my second pregnancy.. I guess i took it so had cause me and my bf had been trying for a year and to finally get it and then its gone in two weeks of finding out was just hard and so painful... But it did make me love my son even more and I've been so protective over his every move... He's my world and don't think i coulda got thru it without him... I will be trying again tho and thanks
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I am glad ur feeling better!!! Don't give up I miscarried my first pregnancy and now have three beautiful healthy children...6 weeks with number for!! I got through it just knowing that god has a plan for all of us and everything happens for a reason!!! Good luck!!
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4181299 tn?1350704301
Thanks
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I'm sorry to hear about ur loss.. I had one mc 7 yrs ago with my first pregnancy on christmas day. I kept asking myself if I didn't something wrong. I didn't have that great of a support group back then so I'm glad u have one. I didn't much christmas a few years after but now I have 3 wonderful daughters and I'm currently prego with a boy due one week before christmas so keep ur head up and remember u did nothing wrong. When the time is right u will have kids. ((Hugs))
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4181299 tn?1350704301
Thanks i will
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Glad to hear you're feeling a little better. Keep that head up :)
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4181299 tn?1350704301
Hey I want to thank you all once again i am feeling better and ready to try again when my two weeks are up... Never knew a D&C was so painful... I just stop hurting today... But thanks and i love you guys ((HUGS))
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I'm so sorry for ur loss I no how much it hurts if u need anyone to talk to I'm here
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1968535 tn?1351550325
Thinking about you hun, and keeping you in my prayers <3 I'm so sorry for your loss! ((Hugs))
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I totally understand wanting to give up. I have been thru 3 MCs and after the second one I wanted a hysterectomy just so I wouldn't have to deal with it again. But praise Yahweh I didn't do that. I kept trying and now am 12+6 today.  Time helps so much.  Will be praying for u.
Oh n don't worry if u cant be strong at the moment, u will be able to be strong again. When that feeling of wanting a child comes back u know its time to try again. (((Hugs)))
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3219541 tn?1351919854
I m sorry for you loss hon, I went tho a miscarried 10 yrs ago, and I know how painful it is mental, and physically.  I wouldn't give up all together, you could always wait few more yrs, and try again.  Hugs
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Really sorry for your loss just try to take paracetamol for hedeach and try to relax as much as you can .....  And dont worry after a miscarriage you get pregnant again bery quickly because you will be very fertile i had a miscarriage last july and got pregnant the end of august didnt even miss a period keep up the hope xxx
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4181299 tn?1350704301
Well I only cry when i go to the restroom... but i think i'll be ok even tho i have family and friends supporting me if feels better coming from you all cause you don't even know me yet you care... Thanks again you all Ima try to get some rest if i can
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4181299 tn?1350704301
Thanks i'll do my best
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4181299 tn?1350704301
Thank you!
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Yes headachs are normal I miscarried twice. It was really hard from me but I stayed string kept trying now I'm pregnant with a big healthy baby girl:) your turn will come soon god won't put you threw things you can't Handel . Stay strong it's the best way. Good luck
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I'm so sorry for your loss, stay strong and know that everything happens for a reason. I pray that your pain will ease sooner than later. Stay blessed
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4181299 tn?1350704301
Yes it is very hard right now can't go to school tomorrow and really don't want to go to the doctor... I just feel like if they would have believe about my pain the first time this would have never happened... don't think i'll sleep too good tonight
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4181299 tn?1350704301
I pray everything goes well with you... I wouldn't wish this pain on my worst enemy... Thnx for your support
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I'm so sorry for you loss. The stay strong and keep looking towards the future right now it might be hard to think of being pregnant again but it will get easier....Again I'm sorry for your loss
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I am so very sorry for your loss and what you are going through I can't imagine the pain you are feeling right now, thinking of you  xx
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1961938 tn?1398718101
Ya Im pretty sure that you can take normal pain killers. But to be safe I'd say tynanol is a good start.
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4181299 tn?1350704301
Hope so
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4241272 tn?1357571660
My thoughts are with you.. It will happen wheb its meant to be
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