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Loving multiple children

I hope I'm not weird but sometimes I fear that I'll either love my new baby a Lil more or a Lil less then my current. I tired comparing to my nieces and nephews and altho I love them equally I do have my favorites. Do you ladies favor one child over the other? Or how is it? Is it equally or is it different?  
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@Emi it's true...my kids are so different from each other. I love them to death and everyone knows this but because they are so different they have to be loved in their own unique way.
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When I was pregnant with my second I had this fear. I couldn't imagine how I would or could give the same love I had for my first to another baby. I loved him so much that I felt I had no more love to give. It sounds crazy now saying it but we're not the only women it's happened to. I personally know women who have experienced this same feeling at one point. But believe me...Once that baby enters this world even before then you will love he/she just as much as you love your first!
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I am going on my third child and I don't have favorites I love each of my sons in their own ways because they're different my older son is very independent and likes to be to himself and my younger is very loving and always wants to be held and cuddled people have actually told me that I favor my younger one but it's not true it's just my older one likes to do things on his own :)
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Im scared of the same thing, that ill love one more then the other.. but I dont have any niece's or nephew's so I have never had a fav. Im sure we will love them equally though, both in their individual way :)..
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