Miscarriage Dreams?? TMI warning

[isntsure]

I had a horrible dream last night that I went to bathroom and my baby starting coming out and stuff and then I was just sitting there with my baby in my hands screaming and crying. But whats weird is that earlier in my dream or later I cant remember which I dreamed that I hadmy baby early at 7 weeks??? And she was just fine and I was trying to figure out how to breastfeed and couldn't remember which breast I fed off last. Then I dreamed about ghosts abraham lincoln being god and I dont even remember what else. Has anybody else had miscarriage dreams? It really scared me and my boyfriend doesn't want me to tell him about it because it scares him too. I'm 8 weeks today if that helps at all. Thanks guys :)

[isntsure]

Yeah your right. I hope he takes it well when I do tell him :)

[tinks88]

im sure he will..and if he does react badly dont get too disheartened it'll just because he probably still see's you as his little girl and it'll hit him that your growing up...so just grin and bear it til it sinks in :)

[isntsure]

Only my mom and grandma know that I'm pregnant right now (as far as my family goes) but they're happy :) I'm also scared of telling my dad but thats because he's working through a lot of mental issues right now. So I really don't know how stable he is...

I'm glad your dad reacted so well though :) hopefully when I do tell my dad he'll be happy too.

[tinks88]

yeah tell me about it lol my family are over the moon so thats a bonus...i was sooooo scared of telling my dad the whole story lol but he was thrilled bless him

[isntsure]

Wow what a COMPLETE jerk. Your MUCH better off without him. He'll probably try and come back but he'll have no one to come back to. What a butthole. Your right though you have your wonderful baby now :)

[tinks88]

nah no need to be sorry just went to show that the past year had been a waste of time he finished with me just before i found out and tried to get me to get rid of it and wanted nothing to do with it...only a week later did i find out he had another gf behind my back for 3weeks...so i lost a A**hole and gained something amazing :D

[isntsure]

That ***** :( I'm sorry. But it sounds like your better off without him. Besides the sexual frustration.

[isntsure]

I didnt know they were normal at first so I was all surprised. But even when I'm in the mood I'm too tired or achy to want to do anything lol. My poor boyfriend is constantly nagging me now and I'm all indifferent about it lol.

[tinks88]

well i cant solve mine as i dont have a man...he was a waste of space anyways and wants nothing to do with us...so i just have to put up with it and be frustrated lol greeeeat ha

[Factorymomma]

Lol yep sex dreams are totally normal too.  I HATE them just because it makes me want to wake my man up at 3am, when he has to be at work at 5:30am lol he'd probably smack me, and not in a playful way lol

[isntsure]

Hmm thats interesting. Yeah I dreamed about my boyfriend's grandpa who just passed away in march. It was scary at first but then it got better. And lol dont worry I've had a couple of dreams like that too. I think its because my sex drive has gone down the tubes but I guess my brain is still wanting it lol.

[tinks88]

i havent yet had a miscarriage dream...infact i havent really had any baby dream.....i used to get them loads before i was pregnant...but no these seem to be about people from my past...one was my first love...lol but ive had quite a few..ready for TMI lol had quite a few sexual dreams...infact quite alot lol

[isntsure]

Yeah your right. But then I went on the internet :P and saw things saying how some women would have those dreams and then they'd come true. So I freaked out. And stopped looking at that. Your dream was reassuring though because obviously it holds no truth :) which makes me feel a little bit better about mine.

[Factorymomma]

Lol I might be a little crazy, but yea, everything is fine.  Very emotionally jarring dreams are very normal during pregnancy.  All the hormones are the culpret :-).

[isntsure]

Its nice to know that other people have these dreams too and are just fine :) Your just fine right?

[Factorymomma]

Drama? Stupid phone.  Dreams are just dreams lol

[Factorymomma]

Crazy dreams like that are normal.... Sadly :-(
Sunday night I dreamed I watched myself die giving birth and they just let my baby die too (not that any hospital would ever do that!).
I'm not even giving birth vaginally lol I'm having a c-section!
You just need to breathe and remember,.drama are just dreams (even though I swear they're just prepping you incase the worst happens, which usually doesn't!)

[happyfeet88]

Hi I hd ths dream too its realy scary I dreamt the doc tuk my bby out it shud wthout my permission its scary I gt up an prayed