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My boyfriend won't have sex with me :(

Its official, I'm only 6 weeks and my boyfriend no longer wants sex "/
Its crazy because my boyfriend LOVES having sex with me, ALL the time.
I said "babe let's have sex"
And this was his response, " youve had enough to last you for the next couple months"
And im just like, :( :'(
What can I do to convince him that nothing will go wrong if we have sex??
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It is normal for guys to freak out about having sex while your pregnant but you can assure them that you can still have sex while pregnant
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My boyfriend was like this when we first found out I was pregnant but from 15 weeks onwards he started to be okay with it and  I am now 38 weeks and we still have sex :) hope this helps!
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Thank you guys for the advice.  After I made this post, him and I were at his parents house watching a family movie with his family then we watched a movie in his room, I fell asleep but he woke me up when I felt his hands all over me and then we finally did it. Its only been a week but it was a very hormonal week lol. Idk what happened,  or what changed his mind but I'm happy he came around. But he did say he's worried about hurting the baby.
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10515800 tn?1419227034
Sex is actually very healthy during pregnancy unless otherwise told by you doctor
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10515800 tn?1419227034
It's not a red flag. Most guys feel uncomfortable having sex knowing there is a baby in your tummy. My husband went thru that during the last trimester after we went to an appointment and my doctor said my babys head was low. I'm sure it's not that he doesn't want to have sex. He will come around :)
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My boyfriend didnt want to either and he said cuz theres a baby in there and worries....well after he couldnt hold it anymore lol he realised he needed some so if your only 6 weeks your boyfriend is bound to change his mind.... mine still worries about the baby but still knows he needs it lol... we dont have it often tho its probably been once a month and now im 7 months and its been a month and im sure will be longer cuz i dont rlly feel good about my body so i dont want it and he doesnt ask so its okay for now lol just remember after u have ur baby he will want you lots again lol
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I don't think its necessarily a red flag. Many men feel weird about a baby being in there and having sex. Try finding a website that gives the truth about How its safe.
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That's a red flag
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Its possible he don't want to have sex cuz of the thought of the baby. He might not want to hurt it. Its normal for some guys to be like that. But all u can do is try to get him too. But you should be grearful he is thinking of the baby if that's the case. But have tour Dr tell him its OK to have sex unless told otherwise.
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Have your doctor tell him.
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