My fiancée

[Lissaleigh]

He's an amazing guy but he just doesn't get the attachment I have with our baby. He tells me I have it on my mind too much. It offends me because I feel like he doesn't care about this half the time. I pray when our son is born that he has a completely different perspective on everything!

[BabyTurnip]

My hubby is so attach to our son. Weve also bern trying to conceive for 1 1/2 years so that may be way his so attach. But im sure that once ur baby is born or even when he can feel him kick he will totally change! Plus remember your with ur baby 24/7 so its different for women then it is for men :) hell definately come around though!

[Lissaleigh]

He's felt him kick plenty of times. We are almost to our due date

[munchkin2013]

Aww poor thing! I hope he changes wen he sees the baby.. they r a blessing! Mayb have a talk with him about how he feels ..good luck!

[munchkin2013]

Aww poor thing! I hope he changes wen he sees the baby.. they r a blessing! Mayb have a talk with him about how he feels ..good luck!

[krista5162]

My husband is the same way! So I pray that he changes also :)

[mamaof4410]

It's normal. Guys don't get it because there not programmed to basically. With us its a maternal bond that begins when we get that positive or feel that first flutter. For guys it doesn't hit them until the baby is born. My hubby is an amazing dad but during my pregnancies he's just around to cater to me lol. I don't stress to him about missing work for drs appts I send sono pics thru text and he calls right away to see how it went. I'm 20 weeks and he hasn't been to any of my appts. But I don't mind at all because I know he does care. He is going to our 3D cuz it wi be our first one. My Dr knows he shows up for the delivery lol. They're guys. Its nothing against you at all. It's what they do.

[mizy_g]

A fathers loves comes the first time he hold the baby youll see !