Need help, one bad mistake

[Deelv7]

I had sex with a guy and he cummed in me,and I cant remember when he did, then me and boyfriend had sex alot of times like the next following day and kept on and he cummed in me. Now im 13 weeks pregnant and im hoping my boyfriend is the father, cause we are now engaged because of the pregnancy.I need to know, if old *** gets pushed out my new ***.... or not. And is it possible that the other is not the father, cause one week after I had sex with thar guy, and me and my boyfriend had sex the pregnacy test was negative, then 2 weeks later its postive, and I went to the doctor and I was only like right at 6 weeks. Please help

[ericatoday]

This is hard since you did it so close together. His spunk can stay in you for 3 days. So the only way to know in your situation is a DNA test. And your bf does have a right to now before later. Hope it all turns out well.

[excitedlyexpecting1st]

Dont marry him before u get the dna test...that would be wrong...even though u havent told him and u should instead of leaving him to be excited for this baby only to find out its not him will crush him at least give him a heads up so he can prepare himself but make sure u marry him after finding out if the baby is his

[nonishy]

Sperm can live inside your body for up to 5 days... so with that being said...good luck.
and better to tell him the truth and apologize and see what happens.
No need to start a marriage or a family based on a lie.
He might even forgive you, but you won't know till you tell him.
You will also not ever be sure who the father is until you get a dna test. It'll eat at you and bother you.  
Anyways good luck.

[bsconcerned]

Like others said your only option is a paternity test. But either way it shouldn't matter at this point because the right thing to do would be to tell your "fiance" the truth. It is beyond wrong to have a man support your throughout your pregnancy when not only is there a chance the baby is not his but that you cheated on him. I really really hope you find it in yourself to do the right thing.

[sugarplumtt]

You need to tell your finance now. I am in the same boat in a way and my boyfriend hates that I cheated but he really loves me. It will definitely be better to tell him now so there aren't any surprises. It will hurt both of y'all but if falls in love with the baby and its not his he will have a hard time forgiving you or he may not forgive you. Thats why it best to do it now. But prayers for you, because I know how it feels and it ***** so bad. Good luck girly wish you luck

[MyBabysM0ther]

Girl you definitely need a dna test when the baby is born ..If your fiancee doesn't know whats qoinq on try not to keep this from your future hubby any lonqer no matter how terrified you are to tell him because hypothetically,lets say hes not the father and he was never aware and finds out later ; im sure thinqs will b much mor heartbreakinq for you and him both. Best wishes to you i know mistakes can happen easily w anybody . I really hope and pray everythinq will work out for your new little family <3

[OctoberBaby5]

I meant not later

[keara1212]

Dnt wait until after the DNA test to tell your bf cause if it comes back that the other guy is the father it will only hurt him more because there's gonna be a bond with him an the baby an he'll relly be pissed better to tell him sooner than later he has the right to know

[OctoberBaby5]

Definitely do tell your boyfriend now and now later, he deserves to know,  not even that you cheated but that there is a chance that the baby is not his so that he does not get his hopes up if it isnt, I would NOT recommend a dna test while pregnant they arent safe on my opinion

[Deelv7]

At luxah, its the only time I ever hsd cheated and everything.... me have a strong relationship. I think I will just tell him, can I get a dna test while still pregnant, and does home dna test work

[Deelv7]

I thought so too.... im so stupid..... I dont even know what I was thinking. Im scared. Well the otherbguy knows and says just wait until the baby born and he will take me to get a dna and if hes not the father then we would just stay friends, and to not tell my boyfriend until after the dna comes back.... they both care but im scared for our family. My fiance family is so exited and the all love and care for me....

[luxah]

No cu-m doesn't get pushed out with new. Our bodies aren't designed like some animals that can do that or store the sperm. If this was the only time you had sex with someone other than your fiance then its possible that you were pregnant before it just didn't appear. But if you were having relations with this other guy and then your fiance back n forith then to pinpoint by dates and speculation is impossible. More than likely you'll need a blood test since you can't remember when you had sex with the other man. Good luck.

[scarletbegoniass]

Your only option is a paternity test. You should probably tell your fiancé now, rather than later, that you cheated on him. I don't think it's fair for him to go through a pregnancy thinking your baby is his when there's a possibility it may not be. Good luck.

[breeyvonne]

Maybe you should tell your boyfriend "fiance" that you had sex with another guy who CAME in you not cummed. I think he deserves to know. Especially if you cheated on him. Only way you'll know is dna test

[OctoberBaby5]

Yeah since it was only one day apart it is impossible to know any other way bc even yohr due date is just an estimate

[OctoberBaby5]

No. To answer your question,  the only way to know if to have a dna test done when your baby is born, so I would let them both know asap

[momma2bee2015]

One day apart is hard.  Ur gunna need a dna test or  hope n pray u can tell who the dad is at birth