I need help/advice PLEASE this is also a vent for me.

[AndyyEL1705]

My boyfriend have been together 3 years & 7 months but recently broke it off. But I don't want it this way and I've told him this many times I'm to in love with & i planned a future with this man he's 22 but the last thing he told me it was hurt me he said he wanted to get his crap together an worry about our kids (but hasn't showed effort to see the one that already here) and that he didn't care about our relationship & it didn't matter to him. Crushed me I've had a lot of issues in the past with family an even exs that promised they would never hurt me or leave me but ended up doing it anyways treating me as nothing. I'm honestly not sure what to do I love him I do. later we spoke again i asked him were we gonna get back together he told me we might that we'd had to see. im very much the type that wants to be granteed But question is should I wait? Should I let it go? Is it worth it?

[JennCam]

Your welcome, just dont be so forgiving...bc walking out on his family is just not right...

[AndyyEL1705]

Jen thank you I felt horrible for thinking about things like that. Cuz I've been trying to figure out what's the right thing to do.

[AndyyEL1705]

Bcuz he left we've been living with my mother for last couple of months since I found out I was pregnant again just so we could both have a babysitter when one of us was working. He had gotten upset with my mom over a small thing that was bcuz she wasn't helping enough with our son i didnt know he had already packed his things before he left work but the deal was that when I was gone he'd take care of him & take him to school his excuse was he was tired he works 3rd & I work during the day. I thought we planned it perfectly when I was gone he took care of our son an when I got back I'd be the one taking care of him.

[JennCam]

The bigger question is what is best your children? Is the relationship bad for them if you guys work on it? It seems like you had to grow up and hes stuck on not growing up...and.you and your kids deserve better! Hope this helps..

[babyboy111]

and can i ask what was the reason why you guys split in the first place?

[AndyyEL1705]

Yes we have a 4 year old together and another one on the way due in March

[babyboy111]

u guys already have kids and are expecting another or?