I`m so sorry for your lost. My first misccar. was missed abortion and the same thing I didn`t felt any cramps, no bleeding and it was so hard for me to understand why it happen. I chose D&C because I couldn`t stand the psychological stress, I was crying all the time.
Both of mine were missed abortions... eventually your body will expel everything, but it could take a very long time... I chose the d&c both times because I couldn't stand for it to be drug out any longer... I just needed closuer and to move one... and it can be unsafe to wait it out sometimes, infections, etc...
If your doc recommends the d&c I would say do it-- but do what you are comfortable with...
I am so sorry you are experiencing this... it is very painful.... hugs.
Yes, I did have a D&C was for the missed abortion. A missed abortion is basically when the fetus stops developing but your body does not miscarry it. That's why they did the D&C.
I did wait about a week before having the D&C, though, to see if it would happen by itself, but when nothing happened, my doctor suggested a D&C.
My second miscarriage was a spontaneous miscarriage and happened by itself at home.
I hope you're doing OK. Take care of yourself, Countrync!
just wanted to say i am so sorry. i also had a missed abortion at 10 weeks and my baby only measured 8. i had a d&c because i told them i did not want to go through seeing the blood come out. i know it hurts very bad. just hang in there. god has a plan.
did you have to have a D&C for the missed abortion one? how do they determine what it is?
I am so sorry you're going through this. I've had two miscarriages. The first was a missed abortion (where the baby just stops growing) and the other a natural miscarriage, and I didn't have any signs either with the missed abortion. No cramping, no bleeding, still had tender breasts and fatigue...
Just wanted to send you a big hug and let you know that you're not alone. Again, Im so sorry.