cut off bc im pregnant???

[ICantWait2CU]

What the hell. Ok so i am having a HUGE problem. My fiance and i got into a fight because he always asks to look at porn or for me to do him... favors. But he hasn't touched me at ALL since I've been pregnant and he barely asks for sex. The last four days has been the worst. Im seriously and insanely sexually frustrated. He told me its because he is scared of hurting the baby and junk but it is 100% safe for us to have sex. Nothing is wrong in my pregnancy so far and had no complications. So what do i do? How do i get him to want me again? Its hard enough because im so down about my self lately. This is making it a whole lother worse... What do i do?

[sadies93]

I dont think your selfish at all. Like the other person said, just try talking to him and explaining how you feel, alot of men get scared to have sex as their partner gets bigger just in fear of hurting the baby.

I personally have sex aversion, my poor hubby is deprived lol sex always hurts and im just never in the mood. But at first my hubby was afraid to have sex and i had to explain to him about 1000 times over that everything is ok and it doesnt hurt the baby.

[carebearmomma]

Your not selfish. I understand your frustration. It's hard enough being pregnant and getting bigger. I would talk to him about it. Try not getting too emotional about it (it's hard, I know) and just calmly explain how everything is making you feel.

[ICantWait2CU]

That's the thing. We already did that for future reference but its no use. He still shows lots of affection... just not sexually and its annoying. :( Do you think im just being selfish?...

[sadies93]

bring him to your next doctors appointment and ask your doctor to explain to him that sex is ok while pregnant.