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Nothing the same anymore

Since I became pregnant its like no one has time for me no one ask me if I wanna do anything it's like I don't even exist and then when I am asked to do stuff it something that involves me sitting around. But I tell you one thing I learned who my real friends are through out this experience and I would change it for the world I love my baby girl and can't wait tell she get here
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I'm going through the same thing! Even my best friend doesn't have time for me..she makes plans with everyone else when she does come around! I've learned to ignore it now though..my baby is my new best friend and we talk all the time...can't wait til she gets here! So don't worry about friends..
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I feel ya! Im 22 and all my friends are busy with partying and traveling.. im not mad tho if i were them i wouldnt be worrying about me. i have hung out with my friends a few times and it isnt the same. they r looking for a guy to hook up with and a place to party which is fine, but i am not looking for that anymore. we are all in touch but we are living our lives differently and thats okay with me. i cant wait till my new best friend gets here i know she will love hanging.with me! :)
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5946774 tn?1389187935
Try going to a pregnant women support group you can meet other ladies in the same shoes as you and make new friends.
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With or they have just had kids and are busy.. lol so i cant be to mad as i was now that im 37 weeks lol but i still have that couple friends that i kno i willl alway have.. so its cool lol
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Same here I've only had my bf thru this entire pregnancy... but i can understand.. because im 21 and either my old friends are partying and in college and living it up and cant relate u dont have much incommon
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My faience tries hard to please and do everything for me and I appreciate it but it just certain stuff he dont understand and when I start crying he thinks that he has done something wrong and it's not the case
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The same happen to me, I lost all my so called friend when I got pregnant and was by myself dealing my pregnancy alone w, no baby daddy. Now im pregnant again and not one of em hits me up, but I dnt care no more I got my boys and soon to be baby. Everything change and your kids are the one who will always be there (:
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5946774 tn?1389187935
I get what you mean. I had so many "friends" before I got pregnant and now I could count my real friends on my fingers. I'm so much happier and I love that when ever someone invites me somewhere they always tell me to bring my son. It opens your eyes a lot and I'm so grateful that i have a few real friends instead of people that only come around when it's convenient to them. It's better this way trust me.
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