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OK I need someone to talk to pls !

My mom gets so emotional. One thing I say she goes crazy. And she won't talk to me for weeks maybe months. Btw I don't say anything mean or crazy to her. I'll just speak my mind and she'll loose it. She won't loose it with any of my other siblings but she'll loose it with me. Also my sister is getting on my last nerve. I don't think I can stand her any longer. I wish she and my mother would understand me I'm pregnant I've been sick until about 20 weeks and I am currently 25 weeks. No one simply says hey It's going to be OK don't worry.  They act as if POOR THEM! I SAY ONE THING TO THEM AND POOR THEM . You know I'll snap I admit it but so does everyone else ... idk I'm at my breaking point and I just can't handle them the way they act like please just let me breath I can't be a normal pregnant women around them because God forbid you **** them off . goddddd forbidddddd. Idk maybe I sound crazy but I think I'm going crazy. Please don't tell me to try and talk to them because that will not work they are very thickheaded. So instead if anyone know what I should do to keep myself calm that would be great. I need to keep calm or I'm afraid I'll loose it or go into early birth idk. Thanks guys I hope everyone is doing good !!
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Yeah but if I don't talk to them they will not be the first ones to talk to me. My mother for one could care less she always plays the victim.  Yes pregnancy hormones play a big role but I assure you I feel like they are both the pregnant ones LOL. Idk what to do to keep calm though and I do not yell at my sis or mom. I simply speak to them. I can get snippy and raise my tone but not yell . They Just don't get it.
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That's tough since you don't live with them. Maybe don't talk to them for a while.  I know hormones probably also have a roll in this.
My sister in law was so moody her pregnancy,  she kept yelling at her little sister. It was bad
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It suckss and I live either my husband buy they still find a way to ruin my day. It suckss but they act like children.  They shouldn't dwell on what I say sometimes . They should get over it like I do. I'm the type of girl were If you say something I'll put in my input but I'll moveeee on . Them oh no . They won't move on . I haven't talked to my mom for 2 weeks now . It's getting annoying and my sister well she definitely sides with my mother because I guess she has to because she lives with her but I always set my mother straight when she would act like a child with my sister and all I want from my sister is to return the favor. At this point I just want too throw in the towel and be left alone. They just get me really angry. It's bad.
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Try moving our if they are bothering you. It'll be less stress
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Im in the same position as you, but it's not just my mom and sister its also my step dad
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