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286957 tn?1191455211

Pray I'm not prego... =[ totally peed the bed! Help.

Hello, I am freaking out a bit... I had unprotected sex with my bf quite a lot this last 4th I'm on the pill but I've never actually had a bf not pull out and multiple times i didn't know he went cuz he can go a few times each time.... MEANWHILE right now I am back in AZ and he back in NV I'll be going home next month to see him but am scared to see him if I am prego. I last saw him sunday I started what I HOPE is my period wednesday.. its too early but I don't care as long as it is... BUT I've been having bladder issues I had a UTI so I hope its still from that but I woke up around 4 this morning thinking i like... died from all the wet in my bed but I had peed the bed.      O_o                                              I haven't peed a bed since I was I can't even remember!!!!!!! But then I had to get up and eat I was starving still feel icky but pray for me that I'm not please! ... Hahh... I'm so dumb. any information or light shed would be extremely appreciated.. I'm in denial so i'll get a test but I'm afraid to get results unless they are neg.
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1055658 tn?1300845290
Only time will tell if you're pregnant or not. Wait until it's been 2weeks from the last time you had sex with your bf to take an HPT. As far as wetting the bed I think that's from your UTI.

That being said I think even though what the above posters said is true it was more than a little harsh. Lets all be honestly with ourselves and admit that when we were young and on birth control we had unprotected sex too. I know how hard it is to hear about young girls getting pregnant so easily when you're trying. It can be really hurtful but it's not our place to judge when it does happen. I got pregnant twice on birth control and one of those times I was when I was married. So accidental pregnancies are not always a bad thing.
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286957 tn?1191455211
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If I would have waitted to post this I would have had my question answered. My friend also had a UTI I'm not sure what from but she had that unfortunate accident as well.. though she was out and about not asleep.. Still.. . so embarrassing. But thanks. Hahaha.
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286957 tn?1191455211
Thanks everyone.. yeah I worded this whole thing poorly Very poorly, I even wince when I read it.. haha..but what can ya do i already posted it.. lol. So as to the harsh comments thanks, but next time if its not helpful to me.. DON'T MENTION IT... I'd apprieciate it. People get on here for help not to have their faces rubbed in there mistakes or possible blessings.
I am plenty old enough Currently I have worked things out so whatever happens my bf and I will be prepared.
I have not taken a test cuz I had a period for a few days and I just haven't made myself get a test.. I will but I have been sick before with mono and been sick all day feeling like I was always hungry so I'm not convinced I'm preggo or anything I was just for a little while.

Thanks SO much for your help ladies!
=]
Thats why this is a great site! minus the mean people... Baha.
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1303813 tn?1303159362
OH dear... Im not getting involved much, but you are telling each other to grow up, then adding immature comments at the end. Which is not helping the situation AT ALL!!!!
As I am basically a Kid and I do need to grow up alot...
But wouldnt the grown up thing to do is... stop commenting and just shhh....
And then everything is hunky dooorey. Yes comments that have been posted are VERY RUDE and extremely hurtful to someone in a situation, turn it around and if it was you in this situation, you wouldnt want people being horrible about it, because I know I wouldn't. And i'd feel very very shut down and hurt by some of the comments said.
Everything happens for a reason.
She is very very scared, and she WAS using protection. So people cant have a go at her, saying if you dont want kids protect yourself, because she was. Okay yes I said it, but I hold my hands up, I didnt understand the post properly. and I just asked about the pill. (I am sorry if I sounded harsh in my comment)

But seriously. This needs to stop. she just needs us to be there and to talk to, isnt that what we and this forum are here for at the end of the day. Not for pathetic squabbling and acting like 5 yr olds!!
confusedamanda: What you said was out of order, but when the comment was made, you should of brushed it off because thats the ADULT thing to do....
andreasmom: I understand completely what you are saying... And its all fair game, but please now just leave it where it is. We are all supposedly adults here.
And no one wants to get their accounts blocked do they, because we ALL DO have useful, helpful and encouraging advice and is very much appreicated. So pleasee pleasee just shhhhh. You have said what you said, now just walk away and stop. Because it will get really out of hand. And you will both end up having your accounts deactivated for a while!!!

sorry if I sounded childish tooo, I am just trying to make peace.

PLEASE. We Need Your Advicess, and We're Here To Help You Too.

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Yea Girl... Thats what I thought too...she must be young....she must be thinking she is the boss around here but shorty you AIN"T !
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1181036 tn?1367368640
Hey Hun, I am 20 years old and pregnant (married to wonderful husband), but before this I was on the pill for 3 years and at least 2 times I had this similar experience.

The last time what I thought was my period showed up 6 days early (it was medium/light bleeding for 3 days) but then my period showed up about a week or so later. I seriously thought I was pregnant because of the early bleeding and I did a ton of research convinced myself it was implantation bleeding....Anyways, my point is you are PROBABLY NOT PREGNANT, sometimes birth control just messes with your body (that's why I stopped taking it).

Also, I know how easy it is to freak out about being pregnant because in school they make it sound like all you have to do is have unprotected sex once to get pregnant and that anytime no matter what a woman can get pregnant...but it's really not that easy. There are a ton of variables that go into it (like ovulation, timing of intercourse, cervical mucus, etc.). Yeah, there are people who get pregnant accidentally and what a coincidence that is, but I wouldn't be too worried if I were you. Obviously you still need to use protection but it sounds like you already are so don't worry :)
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464067 tn?1297298432
can i just say alot of ppl get pregnant by accident i was on the pill and taking it every day without  a break and i fell pregnant twice i have never regretted having my children i would never call my kids a accident i call it fate if your meant to get pregnant you will get pregnant protection or not the girl was using protection with her BOYFRIEND not just a random guy so who are we to judge i think to be honest you should take a test but i dont think your pregnant.
And can i just say im pregnant again with my 4th child unplanned and as soon as i found out i was over the moon i was not on the pill or anything i was refused by my doctor due 2 my health but we used condoms but never worked. what should i call this baby an accident or a mistake.
its about time some people realised young girl need help and thats what we are here for we not here to judge.
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1303813 tn?1303159362
I fell pregnant on the pill... Yes it was an accident, but I would never call it one.

The best thing to do is for her to take a test and go from there....
Also another question,,
Do you have a weak bladder, like when you laugh a little wee comes out, or you dont feel it untill you are busting, and sometimes cant get there intime?? Because they have like injections to help with that, (Just incase it is a weak bladder)
Erm, also, have you been seen about your water infection?? Because you can get stuff over the counter... its powder you put in water.. for cystitus... (I cant spell) but they REALLLY DO help. (well they are in england anyways)  

How far away is your period?? When are you due? and are they regular or irregular??

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I have to agree that comments here have been harsh rather than helpful. The commenter isn't asking for you to judge her life and choices but to give support in a very scary, unsure situation. How many people fall pregnant unexpectedly? I am one of them; I was 19 years old.

Anyway all of that to say the MedHelp Terms of Use (aka RULES) state that everyone need to be supportive and not make anyone feel harassed or mistreated. If it continues this post will be reported to the moderators.
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1326686 tn?1280847422
I completely agree with you.  But you know what let's just not waste our time with people that are obviously "confused"! Some people turn bitter because of life experiences (or lack of it) and some people are just born bitter!
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who do you think you are???? every comment you post have been rude!!! Yes pregnancy is a Blessing from God and I do agree with that!!! but you just can not come out on here giving harsh statements... I mean come on now give me a break!
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1303813 tn?1303159362
Depends what pill you are on.
Are you one the one where you take breaks for your periood??
OR the one you take constantly?
Because the one you dont take breaks with you dont have a period with and stuff, BUT this does have to be taken the same time everydayy :), I am unsure about the other one, because I havent and I am not allowed to take the combined pill.

But if you're being safe with the pill, you should use a condom too, I am not one to talk because my partner is allergic to condoms, I made him prove it with near enough every type there is. And he IS allergic, I wasnt letting him get away with it that easily. LOL...
Well, when was the last time you had sex??
Because if you have irregular periods, 1. The Pill Can sort that out.
and 2 you never know when you're going to ovulate.
If you have regular period
you Ovulate
2 weeks after your period ends :)

So just wait untill you Miss your period. OR wait 2 weeks... :)
Everything will be okay...

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1326686 tn?1280847422
Call it an accident or call it unplanned. of course any type of pregnancy is a blessing.  Read her post.  She was on the pill so she WAS being cautious.
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I agree...people need to give more advice and not judge....we do not know her situation or background.
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1326686 tn?1280847422
I agree with Megs2girls7.  I also got pregnant accidentally with my first daughter and it was one of the best things that have ever happend to me.  I don't think that it is our place to be judging about people getting pregnant by accident.  I understand how difficult it is trying to conceive and then seeing many young girls getting pregnant by accident.  But we are here to give support and share our knowledge not pass judgement.

There is very slim chance that your pregnant.  But it's still a possibility when having sex.  I agree that the peeing was prob due to the uti.  Take a test.  I'm sure everything will be fine.  Good luck!
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Bladder incontinence can be a result of a UTI and other bladder issues. If you are ill and recovering then that could explain feeling sick. The only way to know if you are pregnant is to take a pregnancy test. Pregnant women don't just pee the bed. They might pee themselves a LITTLE when they laugh, cough or sneeze but that is when they are further along because the baby is sitting on the bladder.

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1285651 tn?1319642429
Not to be harsh but if you dont want to be pregnant than you shouldnt be having unprotected sex in the first place. Birth control is NOT 100% effective and a majority of woman do not even use it properly which lowers the effectiveness also. There are many woman on this site that are trying to get pregnant or have gone through so much in order to get pregnant that its a shame to hear about someone "accidental pregnancy" that they didnt even want. I'm not sure how old you are but if your old enough to have sex then you are old enough to face the consequences.
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1128483 tn?1277340286
If your on the pill and taking it correctly your chances aren't super high, although it is always possible.  How long have you been on the pill?  cycles being irregular happen more often during the first few years on the pill, and/or if you get sick.  When was your last period?  If it's been 4 weeks since your last period take a test just in case.  

Using one method of birth control is not 100% when it comes to preventing pregnancy.  Even if you use multiple (Pill and Condom for example) there's still a possibility but better than one method.  
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any time you have unprotected sex. can result in you being pregnant. If you do not want to be pregnant use more protection. end of story. good luck
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