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Pregnancy is SUPPOSED to be a beautiful thing?

Why is my husband's side of the family so negative about my pregnancy? They have been gossiping negatively about my pregnancy. I am a little stressed and sad.
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I am so disappointed and disgusted in how these in laws have treated me from the beginning. I found I was pregnant and was willing to give it yet another try but they just messed it up for themselves by talking crap about me so I'm now officially done. I wash my hands clean
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I'm at the point I don't like talking to my future mother in law.. my fiance knows ... She's just always so negative! Thier response to me being pregnant was well yall need to go get married... They are very old fashion. Shes gave me things from when she had kids and her oldest is 41 and youngest is 26 I try to be nice. But half the things are stained and smell even after cleaning them. Shes tells me I'm trashy bc I have tattoos and piercings ... Everyone in his family is already talking about they will watch my baby .. I don't want anyone watching my baby this is my first and I want to learn things on my own instead of people telling me what to do! I'm due in 7 weeks and I'm more worried about his family bc they smoke ( I am allergic to the smell) and I don't want them telling me what to do which they already are ... I plan on breastfeeding so no one can take her ... I'll feed her every 2 hours If I got to. I may sound mean but why do people have to try tell me how to raise my little girl when she isn't even here? I know how u all feel that's why I just stay to myself and if she calls I ignore it and say I was sleeping
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My mil apparently went through all emotions in one day when i found out i was pregnant, we arent married but have been together 12 yrs and lived together for 5yrs! My bf went straight to her to comfort her!!!! I said thanks a bunch hun do u not think im going through those emotions and need u here?? (I found out i was preg at 19w) hes been amazing after that n even told his mum she needs keep hee opinions and thoughts to herself unless they r kind and helpful n that she needs back off n let us do this ourselves. (Im 27 hes 30 but a huge mummies boy) she has done for which im greatful cos i could of turned nasty.... pregnancy has brought the ***** out in me lol
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Wow sounds alot like this sister of my hubby's but its so immature and unnecessary isn't it?
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1961938 tn?1398718101
My sister in law hates that I am pregnant, she thinks my husband is throwing his life away on me but that is her problem. She is even more upset that I am having the first girl in their family.
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This is my 3rd bt idk why its so upsetting for them. This is our growing family,not theirs
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Dont worry about them. My hubby's Mom doesnt like that Im pregnant again. She about gave me a "comin to jeebus" talk when I said I was gonna keep going to school but my hubby intervened
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3744707 tn?1402187570
It is beautiful !!!!!screw what other people are gossiping about. Its about you and your family your gunna be a great mommy. We gotta stay even stronger with people around talking negativity. I know it ***** and makes us feel sad but cheer up gf were blessed to be able to get pregnant its the best gift ever <33
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