Pregnancy&Sex

[Hillary_josh]

My husband and I used to have a good sex life ever since I got pregnant Im not into it like I used to be at all. Well my husband and I just had a conversation about it all and he keeps getting mad at me for not understanding how he feels and I'm trying to understand but he doesn't understand either. Its not that i dont want to have sex i just hurt alot and I just get to emotional about it. Have any of you other women had a problem with this.

[Hillary_josh]

Thanks ladies I'm 21 weeks and yeah I do have a little bit of a sex drive but I already had problems before I got pregnant and now I'm just really sore and tired all the time. Don't get me wrong he is very supportive and does lots of things I need done around the house but he is just stressed because we don't have that sense of closeness we used to feel

[shelleversole]

The first trimester your hormones make you have less of a sex drive my husband and I went.from 3-4 times a week to once a week, ive jut been icky feeling, your husband will just have to deal with it, however im at 11 weeks and close to the beginning of my 2nd trimester, and my sex drivehas recently.come back in full swing, if not, even worse than before...if.youre not in your first trimester you should maybe speak to your doctor, it could be depression due to hormones...every pregnancy is different. Good luck and best wishes!

[Toni100388]

To keep him happy. I love my husband I know he loves me. He just wants to be fed and ******..that's it, so I can do that.

[Toni100388]

Yes, I am in the same boat. Just like u my husband and I had great sex until I found out I was pregnant. Then instantly I just didn't want it anymore. My husband had a talk and he was very frustrated. We hadn't had sex in about a month and he resorted to masturbation and he nor I liked that. I have a very good and supportive husband but I realize he is still a man with wants. I don't want to push him into another woman's bed. So I have to put my selfishness ( yea honestly I was just being selfish. Cuz it doesn't hurt, I just want to be lazy) to the side aNd give him my body for 30 minutes or less