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Hi, ladies. Does anyone have the same problem...these few month I havent felt in the mood to have sex, I am 16 weeks. I can litrally dream of having nice sex with my hubby, but when we do it I can't feel a thing...
at start I used to get angry at my hubby for not making me come, but now I just get depressed.
Any one have had/has the same problem?? When did U guys start to feel an orgasem after this??
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I just take control and do it the way I want to till I orgasm. He loves it so much he has to put a condom on to last longer. Anyways try maybe a different position?
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Haha yeah, but its bummer for the ladies who has men who dont want to have sex with them..belive me it is frustrating, and U start tinking something is wrong wigh U.
but this time its just me...sometimes I even try to pretand am sleeping or something because I really dont want to have it. Thinking since I cant get an orgasm, why have sex...the bother of taking a shower after that it tiring. Expecaly since we live in a houseshare..embarassing
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Awww some men love pregnant woman, some men dont. I dont know why they wouldnt i mean everything just gets bigger and better i dont see their problem! lol
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Haha good I ' am not the only one. But we dont even have that much sex it can go weeks befor something happens. Since he works in night and comes home early in the morning thats when he wants it, but that time am soo tired and sleeping.
oohh cmh1314 my first pregnancy he didnt want to do it when I used to ask...sometimes I had to beg for it, and he still said no..remamber I used to cry many times bacuse of that.
Happy its not like that with this pregnancy(my second).
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Be glad he wants to have sex with you! You're lucky. Mine won't give it to me. I swear it's because I'm pregnant now. Before I'd get it all the time.

Hope everything gets better for you.
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Oh my god i was the exact same! Totally normal hun, maybe at the moment sex isnt what u need maybe some non sexual romance? I hated sex for the first and second trimester but when i wanted it he was never in the mood and if he was it would take SOOOO long for me to orgasm we both gave up and my hormones were on some world war battle inside me it was crazy! We didnt have sex for 4 months due to me having my baby at 31 weeks 5 days via emergancy c-section and we were not allowed sex for 6 weeks but 5 weeks after c-section i had another operation so had to wait longer! And i was in hospital for a very long time and when we did have sex. OMG i think i orgasmed in under 2 minutes, so my advice is maybe to wait longer periods without sex rather than trying to achieve an orgasm as it can such much more stress on both of you, good luck xx
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