Stressed And Don't Know What To Do

[Shankwa1]

I So Stressed Out My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Cause I Told Him I'm Planning On Keeping Our Baby He Said Don't Call Or Text Him Till The Baby Is Here And When The Baby Comes He Wants A Blood Test And My Family Said If I Throw This Baby Away They Are Done With Me For Good So Now He Or My Family Is Not Talking To Me I'm All Alone ..., I Really Don't Know What To Do . He Will Not Pick Up My Calls Or Text .

[MommyMakwa00]

Dang, where's the love? My first child's father was involved until he turned 1 and when I broke up with him he didn't want to be a dad anymore, so I filed child support on his dead beat butt. Best way to deal with a man like that, as far as your family, what kind of behavior is that? If you need to do something they don't approve of, my opinion is who cares obviously they want things their way despite what is in the best interest of you and your child. The choice is ultimately your but I'd shed the negative people from my life and start over, which I actually did and it worked out.

[mamabear8911]

He's prob just scared and being a jerk to make you feel guilty.. But don't fall into his trap,  he spoke his mind,  and respect it.  Don't contact him bc it will annoy him n push him away.  It's hard,  but u got a supportive family,  I'm glad you're keeping the baby!Think of yourself n baby. Ignore the drama n take care of yourself/baby!  Once baby born get dna and put his *** on child support.  He prob will come around once it sinks in he's a father and sees his child n holds it,  he fall in love with baby.  Best of luck. Don't let no man dictate your life

[garden2]

He sounds young, my bet is give it time he may come back around, i wouldn't call him either, you are worth being valued and appreciated .You are making a good choice keeping your baby, it maybe hard now but when you are old and gray you wont think back and wonder "what if " . Focus on getting yourself healthy and next steps to better yourself, whether its college or a professional degree and have your family there to support you.

[garden2]

He sounds young, my bet is give it time he may come back around, i wouldn't call him either, you are worth being valued and appreciated .You are making a good choice keeping your baby, it maybe hard now but when you are old and gray you wont think back and wonder "what if " . Focus on getting yourself healthy and next steps to better yourself, whether its college or a professional degree and have your family there to support you.

[KyandKay]

I don't think you should get rid of the baby because of him. Seems like you have a supportive family. Do what's best for YOU at the end of the day. What he want, you to get rid of the baby, possibly getting back with him then if you end of pregnant again then what? It's your life and decision at the end of the day.

If he truly love you, he wouldn't leave you over something he helped caused. It's plenty of guys that would be willing to have and love your baby. To hell with him

[majo_hikari]

**** him, he's an idiot. You can have a paternity test done at pretty much anytime in your pregnancy. Get one done, and if he is the father, mail him the results with a note attached saying you're done with him and that you'll see him in court for child support. He's trying to make you think you can't do it without him so you'll give up the baby and then he's homefree.... FORGET THAT ASSHAT. Protect you and your baby.

[melcarin]

That guys a real loser. Forget about him. If you want the baby keep it. Don't let him tell you what to do. He doesn't deserve you or a baby for that matter

[breonte22]

What she said lol ^^^ ! No offense but how old are you?

[CarlieJamelle]

Screw him. Im sorry but thats not a real man. Stand up and take responsibility for your OWN actions! he laid down with you therefore  he needs to accept the reprocussions of unprotected sex!
Im sorry youre going through this hun, but at least your family is there to support you! Ultimately you have to make the decision that you think is best for you. Thats all that matters.

[Futuremom2b]

You should step back from him and do what makes you happy. Your family wants to be there so let them and keep the baby. Give the boyfriend time to come around and if he does not then you know he is not who you thought he was. The more you keep calling and texting the more stressed out you will be and the more that he will have the upper hand. Focus on you and your baby because that is all that matters!

[TigerLily1230]

You should only be thinking about you and the baby. You want to keep your child and that's good. Stay with your family..guys come and go.

[MarzV]

A guy who wants to act like that, isn't worth thee time. Concentrate on you and what's best for the baby. You don't need to stressing over somebody who's going to be absent by choice.

[pregoRita]

Dont worry about him or ur family you do whats best for YOU ...