Hey dont worry. If your in good health Its just a little bit of tweeking you need to do. Trust someone who went through the same emotions. I picked up this book Taking Charge of your Fertility. And it gave me sooo much insight on what I should be doing differently or better to maximize my chances. I totally reccomend this book. I reccomend it to everyone I come across who is going thru a similar situation to mines. FYI- Im 6 months pregnant.. Have faith, dont give up, keep trying, and STUDY.. :-).
How long have you been trying? i've now been trying for 26 months going into 27 months and i know how hard it can be seeing the negative result every month and your AF being out of whack for a while. I've had blood tests and swabs and so far all have come back clear i'm getting the rest at the end of the week.
My partner was also tested and found out his sperm count is fine but the motility is slow, we've been told we may need help in conceiving and we're only 24 and 27 years old. Don't stress to much over trying, make sure your taking folic acid very month as this helps when ttc.
If theres anything else you need to know just send me a note, a lot of women are in your shoes your not the only one out there, best of luck!!
you are really young to give up... you can consider consulting with a doctor if you are not happy the way things are going
My husband and I tried for five years before I became pregnant with my son, who is now 3. I know how devastating it can be every month when your period comes. We went to a fertility specialist and they run millions of test and could find nothing wrong with either of us. I was trilled and scared when I found out I was pregnant. I really didn't want to believe it. When he was a year old, we decided to try again. A year later I got pregnant again, but loss the baby at 7 weeks. We started trying again as soon as it was possible and it took me another year to get pregnant. Now I am 14 weeks and all looks well.
The best advice I can give is to try not to stress about it, which is nearly impossible when you want to be a mother. Just know that eventually, when the time is right, your time will come. I will be praying for you that it will happen sooner rather than later. :)