TMI BUT NEED ANSWERS PLEASE

[mummyof3beauties]

Does this sound like Labour to you? Well (tmi) me and my boyfriend had rough sex last night I had intense pain in my lower adominal area after we had sex (I normally get pain after sex but it was worse) well I continued to have pain through out the night and this morning and during the night as I woke up to roll over I felt liquid leaking out and when I checked my pants when I went for my morning pee my pants were soaked with clear liquid (could it just be his c*m still leaking out??) And when I cough it still leaks out so is it my waters have gone or his c*m im still getting lower pain but its not as bad im 36 weeks

[mummyof3beauties]

Are we all done ranting now? Its not even effecting me So if your trying to make me feel bad or hurt my feelings your wasting your own time never did I not except peoples advice I didn't know what to do about work..... and thats when things got blown out of hugh perportion....... I did say knowing from experience it was probably just my bfs c u m leaking out but I got told that was ridiculously idea........ thanks to people putting awful images of my baby being ill in my head (because I care about my child) it got me scared and I managed to go to the hospital....... turns out I was right it was just a mixture of discharge/c u m which was the reason why I kept on putting it off because I knew it would of been a false alarm again but when I first put the post up I was just in a blind panic let my mind carry away with me...... but im not carrying on this drama here anymore thats all I have to say BYE!

[M0mmysoon2B]

To all the mothers trying to help. ..

If your telling someone the truth from the bottom of your heart and they start to get offended, dont feel bad because they dont feel offended they feel guilty and dont kno how to handle it.

In this situation god forbid anything was to happen or affect the child it would be on the mother for not responding to the situation accordingly.

To the mother..
I wish you and your baby the best of health I hope all is well with you both. God Bless!

[Melissa_Yvette]

Wow, the most unnecessarily stressful post I ever had to follow. I'm just glad to FINALLY know the baby is ok. Hormones make pregnant woman crazy, but jeeeez lady, if you don't intend on accepting any advice, don't ask.

[ajaponte]

Way to cause unnecessary drama. Obviously you're the one needing to take a "chill pill". At least people were trying to help you. There was no reason to make a mountain out of a mole hill. And if you were getting stressed out by people's responses, that's your fault. You chose to let it stress you out. Try to lighten up a little.

[syddie50]

Amen victoriamichell1010! I completely agree. I don't in the least bit feel stupid either. She needed to hear the things these ladies were telling her. And point of fact if I even have the slightest thought I'm in labor to the hospital I shall go!

[victoriamichelle1010]

I actually dont feel stuoid at all. Thank you @rosealie23. I feel like i did rhe right thing telling her to make sure it wasnt. She asked for advice and didnt want to take it. If it was her water, the baby probably wouldnt be okay right now and it wouldnt have been our fault whatsoever. So no, i feel like im gonna be an awesome parent because im gonna make sure my child isnt in any danger rather then go 24 hours without knowing at least having an idea about whats wrong.. i ask my doctor about anything! So if i THINK my water broke the first thing im gonna do is call my doctor and see if they tell me to get checked. Just in case..

But i am glad to hear everything is alright with you and baby. Thats honestly the only reason ive been on your post a million times. I was really worried that something couldve easily happened had it of been your water.. but thank you for letting us know. Sorry if i seemed rude but the mom in me was coming out and i needed to hear that everything was okay.

[MrsAmySanchez]

Well it does to me, everytime..so it can

[syddie50]

It hasn't ever happened to me 24 hours later....

[MrsAmySanchez]

For everyone who said that her bfs C U M can't leak for 12hrs thats not true..I can have sex with my husband tonight and would still be leaking his C U M tomorrow night /: 24hrs later.. js it does happen it happens to me EVERY time

[rosealie23]

Bet they feel kinda stupid. Glad everything is fine. It could have been urine that is why I said you could wait till after work. That far along women sometimes leak urine and can't tell because baby is pressing on your bladder.

[syddie50]

WELL IF YOU HAD TOLD US THIS WAY EARLIER INSTEAD OF BEING RUDE WE WOULD'VE LEFT IT ALONE HOURS AGO. this whole argument was your fault sweetie.
BUT, on the bright side I'm VERY happy to know baby is doing fine and everything did work out okay (:

[mummyof3beauties]

Well like u said u refuse to argue and be pettylifes to short for that but I have taken your aadvice been to l&d and they checked baby and it WASN'T my waters baby is fine so you can all take a chill pill and back off

[GigiBella]

smh. Seems like u would rather post to strangers than call ur doctor. Good luck w ur pregnancy and pity party about everyone hurting ur feelings.

[meepie93]

NY doctor has told me just because your water breaks doesn't mean you'll go into labor. The baby needs the fluid. And if that's what you lost you should be seen. My sisters water didn't bream but she kept leaking and if the water got to low she had to have a c section

[Mrs_Hdz]

I would still go to make sure but it's up to you hon

[nicoleemommyOf2]

Why even ASK any of us if your not gonna take the advice any ways ? Smh everyone told you should go in or at least call ... cumm doesn't leak out 12 hours latter ?

[victoriamichelle1010]

I suggest you call at least... let them know the whole situation and see what they suggest.

[Nayy_]

Did you talk to a doctor?

[mummyof3beauties]

Iv stopped leaking and im not in pain still suggestin I go?

[rosealie23]

They are kinda right about needing to get checked but as long as you are not in pain then it can probably wait till after work. With new baby a job is important but if pains start then leave.. they did word things a little judgey but you are over reacting a bit probably because of stress. This is my sixth baby and it does sound like your water or could be urine but deffinatly not your boyfriends stuff. Good luck..

[tattoobabyjean]

Have you gone to the doctor yet? I keep checking in to see if everything is okay but see you flipping out on people for informing you of the seriousness of your water breaking and what it means for your baby.

People aren't targeting you they are just saying what will happen if you keep holding off. They are worried for you and your baby and are trying to give you the courage you obiviously need to tell your boss to **** off and go to the hospital.

[ash060115]

I came to read this because of the other post about people being ******* to you - I honestly can't see anyone being rude to you at all. :/

I think everyone just wants to help - why not just say "no I didn't get checked" or "yes I did" & stop fighting.

Nobody needs to be arguing on a screen its immature and pointless.

[colly_94]

Your the only one being bitchy :/

[mummyof3beauties]

Im not part of this conversation no more im sick of the bitchy ness