Yes they are a bunch of complete idiots! But thanks ladies :)
Yup through ultrasound but they can be off by 2+ pounds so it's kinda pointless.
You really won't know, until the baby is born what the birth weight is.
Sonograms give you a pretty good idea usually, but sometimes they're way off. Also, unless you get the sonogram done on the day of the birth, the weight changes every day.
The army doctors are a bunch of idiots. But she's right about the ultrasound. You could just wait I suppose.