So for awhile my great-grandma has been suffering from alzeihmer (i have no idea how to write that sorry) and she has water on her lungs and she probably has had like 30heart attacks. She technically should of died 4months, but because she wrote her will after she started losing her mind they don't consider it legimite and left it up to the family, who for some selfish reason didnt want to let her go in peace!!!! (im totally against that. I beliebe if its someones time then to just let them go up peacefully.) Well its such a horrible coincidence that for the last four months that poor woman has been suffering and now, i only have 10days left until my due date and now the family is saying that she's magically gotten better and that it must be because she's holding on the see the 5th generations. Is that just freaking selfish????? And now they decided that on her nect heart attack the will finally give her morphine and let her go peacefully!!! Shes been suffering for years!! And now they want to make a party for the baby as a '5th generation' party and they are all telling me that the moment i feel better we're goimg over. Did i forget to add that this family is six hours away!!!! I cant tell them no, i love my great-grandma and i do want her to see my son its just shes really sick, shes bearly holding on and i feel like i have to force myself to get back on my feet as fast as possible just to please everyone! I feel horrible for not wanting to drive six hours with a newborn to see family. I feel horrible for not wanting people to hold him let alone my weak ill greatgrandma :( im scared shell drop him! Beside my greatgrandma and a few others, 90% of that side of the family ive been avoiding for personnal reason. I dont want everyone to hold him, i dont want him to get sick, i dont want to do a six hour ride with a newborn, i dont want to feel like i have to rush to get better, i just feel lost and horrible for thinking like this. In a way i just my greatgrandma to leave peacefully now! Is that so bad? She lost her husband almost 15yrs ago, shes been alone all this time, her kids drove her out of her own house and but her in retirement homes just so they could get the money from all the land. She's wanted to die since the first heart attack, she doesnt want to fight anymore but they force her to stay alive with a gazillion medicine but the wont give hr anything for the pain up until just recently. I mean, she doesnt know who i am, she doesnt remember most people anymore, shes probably scared and alone! I really dont think she would want me to rush myself back to health and do such a long drive with a week old baby just for her sack. If she was herself she would want me to take my time, but shes not herself! And here i am, crying my heart out because i really dont want to do this!
I mean i do...i want to see her and want her to meet my son but.....i thought i would at least get a month to rest and get into a good routine and family time with my hubby abd my son. I dont know if im explaining all of this properly, it may come out the wrong way, but i feel like a witch. I feel so horrible inside for not wanting to do this. My grandpa passed away in april but before he died everyone told me he was much better and would nake it to see my son, but he didnt.....and now everyone is saying the same for my greatgrandma but nobody realises how hard itll be on me. And i feel like it shouldnt matter because obviously no one else cares!
If anyone has the heart to even read that far, thank you so much....this is really just a vent and anger and sadness built up that needed to come out. My hubby listens but he has nothing to say really. He just holds me and tells me itll be okay. Sorry its so long :( i have a lot on my heart today