Thinking to skip BD..

[thefebygirl]

Hi, this is our 6th month ttc. for some personal reasons, im very much upset and depressed. so I am thinking to skip the BD this month. b4 we ttc. we had sex may be once or twice in a month. not much active on those days... now its getting more stressful, n' all that. so im thinking to take a break for this month. (just for me to relax, n' hv my own time). so what u ladies think???.

[Minigingerbread]

I know how you feel, sister. I feel that too. After so many months of trying, I just feel like giving everything up, including sex. Take all the time you need. Meanwhile, eat healthy, and concentrate on making yourself happy!

[alaysha]

Aww im sorry girl. Guys cab be so retarded some times. But if you guys are having marital issues, now is not the time to have a baby. Babies never make anything better. In fact the first year of marriage and the first year of raising a child are supposed to be the worst for relationships. Best to have a solid foundation first.

[thefebygirl]

to enjoy sex. you have to trust ur partner. or love. but now, my husbnd hide something from me(his point of view he hide things coz it could make me upset). however, when i foundout it hurt. so, i just dont feel comf to hv a sex with him. anymore. i just hate him now.

[thefebygirl]

ya. im going to enjoy my brek without sex. now i just hate it. im experinceing alot of emotional streess/ depression. now. i dont want to have sex. for a month. or may b 2.

[JoyRenee]

Enjoy a break!

[mamaof4410]

I think this is true as well. i was trying for 4 months and decided to just give up and i stopped worrying about it. a month later i was pregnant. relax, dont stress and just enjoy yourself.

[alaysha]

A lot of times when people stop ttc and just relax and enjoy sex for purposes other than baby making they'll end up getting pregnant. Its weird but I think stress can kinda be a natural birth control.