Ttc for 2 years

[chickelaine]

Not sure if this is the right forum. I am 23 and been
Ttc for 2 years now. Its been really disheartening. Just recently i was told my sister in law is pregnant. I know she hasnt been trying. I am just wondering has anyone else been here and any advice?
Thanks

[adanner24]

Just pray for it and practice a lot. Dont streas about it....and u need to be ttc on the right days of the month (when ur ovulating) and all the days around that. Also if its taking years to concieve....u may qant to get ur hubby/boyfriend checked out for low sperm count or if he has a problem down there. My brother n his qife have been trying for about 8 years and nothing....he finally got himself checked out and his count is very low. They dont want to do IVF or anything like that but jist wanna try naturally but they are now in the middle of the adoption process. And they are ok with that.

[chickelaine]

What vitamins did you take? Were they bought over the counter or were they prescribed?

[chickelaine]

Thanks everyone. Its really not nice feeling jealous over a relative getting pregnant. I was thinking of going to the docs to see what i can do.

[adigllrdo]

*dont make a chore out of it* sorry forgot to finish my last thought

[adigllrdo]

My husband and i have been trying for 3yrs but still no luck. Im 24 hes 27. I know how you feel my lil sis has 3 and she didnt even break a sweat lol and my big bro also has 3. Their last babies are just 1 month apart so my sis and his wife were pregnant together. It makes me feel left out cause they always ask when we're having one. My hubby is a good man and is there for me when i get sad and cry about it. So as for advice all i can say is hang in there, dont give up, and have faith. Your time to be a wonderful mom will come. My hubby always tells me its ok God has his plans for us made out and he will send us a baby when he knows were ready maybe now is not the right time but he never abandons us and he knows you will be a wonderful mother. It always makes me feel better and now that i have said it to you i hope you feel better too. Be there for your husband also and talk to each other about his feelings about the situation also cause i know my husband also gets sad about it so its good that you be there for each other, listen to each other, and love each other. Sorry it got so long i got carried away cause i thought i was the only one going thru this and i had no one to vent to sorry. Good luck and enjoy the baby making process dont make a chore.

[nixsie]

Oh and I just turned 24 in august x

[nixsie]

Hi thought id comment as I have been in the same boat as you. Been with my hubby 8 years never used contraceptive didnt fall for 2 years with my son. And did use anything after and he is 5 in 2 weeks and im 18 weeks pregnant. Never had misscarriage or anything just only ever been pregnant twice. So id say activly we were trying for over 3 years with our 2nd baby even though ive not used anything for 5 years. I went to the doctor as I felt rundown he sent me for blood tests and said my folic acid and iron was so low I had to have vitamins asked me what contraceptive I was on I said none as we were TTC for over 3 years he said take a contraception vitamin and come back in 3 months and he would start running fertility tests as been trying over a year.and I fell pregNant that month maybe it was a combo of vitamins and not stressing but I wish you well and gd luck TTC xx

[xxproudmummyxx]

Not same but docs gave me a very small percentage of ever getting pregnant. I have 21month old and one on way so it can happem. Just have a little faith