My mom is not getting that i dont want her in the delivery room

[amoma3boys]

So im being induced in the morning and long story short my mom who has never really been a mother ever to any of her kids, she even was married for 11 years and ran out on her husband and youngest child who was nine because she met a man online in another state and left in the middle of the night. im the oldest of her kids and have always taken care of her kids since i was 5. i am now 28 married for 9 yrs and on our 4th child. She still live out of state rarely calls, usually calls when shes drunk. she has never been a gma to my kids and now shes here and wants to be in the room which i am not ok with, shes been here for 4 days and stopped here her and i went to lunch and she took a 3 hour nap and i havent seen her since. im just at my wits end, shes my mom and i will always love her even though i do not approve of the choices she makes but we r not close and  i dont feel she deserves to be there. my mothet inlaw and i r very close and she will be there but she has always been there for me and is a perfect gma to my boys. Even though i have told my mom no she is not going to be there i know shes still going to show up and my husbands gonna flip.

[trying43]

Yep the nurses will kick out unwanted people!  If she starts acting a fool they wont put up with it and she might just get herself arrested.  Sorry ur dealing with this good luck.

[PriceFamily91611]

Tell the nurse they can make her leave the room, that's what I wuld do!!!

[KTowne]

Tell the hospital she's not allowed in the room, at all, it's your choice if you want her there after birth, if you don't, they won't even let her in the waiting room. Tell the staff she is NOT allowed near the room, and you don't want to know if she shows up, so it doesn't add extra stress. She's not staying with you is she? In your house? Because that could cause a lot of drama when you come home. I don't blame you one bit hun, stand your ground!!