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Weird thought that i dont understand
Ok me and my boyfriend have been together about 2years and im having this weird disbelief that he is the father.. Why? I have never cheated on him, hes the only man ive had sex with the whole time we have been together yet i still cant grasp that he is the father of my unborn baby. I feel so weird and stupid for feeling this way. I know hes the father but i feel doubts. How could i even feel this way??? What can i do to not think like this its weirding me out and kind of bumming me out too. Any advise?
Its like my mind is trying to make up this imaginary non existant man to make my craziness make sence. Which drives me nuts like wtf. I even know the day we conceived and thought it would make me feel better but no. I guess i just dont believe were having a baby together. Plus im like perinoid of anything that could go wrong. Maybe thats another reason why im thinking that. I feel like a bad person even thinking like this.
I would not tell him you don't want him to have doubts about you and treat you differently, it'll just upset him. It's not like you're keeping this huge secret from him, it's just the pregnant mind playing tricks on you
This is funny I'm with my husband for 4 years never cheated or anything but I had same feeling some time ago. I think it is because I'm so happy that I'm having a baby with love of my life that I'm afraid something could go wrong.Im trying not to think that there could be something wrong with baby so I guess my brain make up some stupid/not reallistic case scenario. I have no idea this is weird but its good to know I'm not alone or going crazy.
Thanks i guess i feel better knowing someone felt the same way like im not a total crazy person. Lol
I felt the same way with my first!! My doctor thought I was crazy. I was thinking that somehow sperm from someone three years ago got me pregnant which is impossible!! You will get past it. Honestly 2 years later, and my son is the splitting image of his dad, and sometimes my mind still wonders what if this is a rare case where my son is not his...... I would not tell your man that because then he too will feel like you have doubt for a reason when it's just you're mind playing tricks on you.
Could it be because we are apart a lot of the time because he works offshore?
Pregnancy hormones make you solo illogical! Just do things together that revolve around getting ready to be parents even just talking about names and you'll start to see him as a daddy and not just thean you love
That's strange considering he's the only man you have been sleeping with. Maybe this whole pregnancy still seems surreal. I think I'm going into labor soon and I'm finally accepting the fact that I'm going to be a mom and I'm freaking out, despite the fact that I have been preparing the baby's things for months and have had a.million ultrasounds. I guess It just barely hit me as silly as that sounds. Maybe that's what's going on with you. I'm not sure what there is for you to do but focus on the fact that he is the father because he's the only one you have had sex with
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