What would you do...?

[CedesMarie]

I just had a baby girl 7 months ago via c section.. Yesterday I took 2 home pregnancy test and both were positive. According to my last period, im 6 weeks I do not know what to do... I don't want another baby right now, and I'm scared that my c section hasn't healed and I could have complications. But I dont think i can bring myself to have an abortion... What would y'all would do in this situation.. ?

[alexis444]

The decision is up to you. If you feel as though your ready to have another baby go for it. If not there are other options. Do what's best for you and your baby and the father if he is in the picture. Either decision you make you will have to live with and it wont make you a bad person if you pick either to keep the baby or have an abortion. You know what you can handle and will make the best decision for your family. Don't let people make you feel bad for the decision you make. The more people you tell the more influence over your decision you will be giving them. Think of your family first you will know what's best to do. Good luck.

[tay2163879]

It's no one's "fault" a person gets pregnant, and I never understand why the "blame" is always on the mother. Even if a person does everything responsibly there's still a chance of getting pregnant. Let's face it, we're all adults and abstinence really isn't a feasible option for most people, as humans we're sexual beings. While of course it is not us who will be making the decision the point of this app is to support one another in all situations. Especially if someone is asking for help, it does no good to make someone feel horrible when they're struggling with tough decisions. By all means voice your opinion but as I said earlier, do it in a constructive way that doesn't have to make someone feel alienated for asking their question in the first place.

[babymaia_01]

The joke is your name but I wont get started on that. It's her own fault she's pregnant again, she knew the consequences of having sex. Keep it or dont it's not upto us.

[Deekie]

The joke was the fact that you misspelled beautiful   and like I said in the above post you can still voice your opinion and still be supportive and helpful

[babymaia_01]

Deekie, your an extremely opinionated rude person. How dare you use a posters name in vain against there daughters "my beautifulgirls" and say "yeah I bet your "beautiful" daughters are happy" HOW DISRESPECTFUL! Just because someone has a different opinion to you doesn't give you the right to attack or be rude to them. This poster asked for opinions and that's what people are giving her! She obviously knew there would be haters, we don't need you trashing her post making rude comments to others. Pmo!

[Deekie]

And it's not a baby it's a fetus and it's not even like it's a fully formed fetus yet it's an alien that doesn't even have arms or legs yet.