MamaShriver, it seems to me that you deserve more answers than you're receiving. Having 2 prior miscarriages at 15 and 14 weeks, you have real reason to be concerned. But I'm not sure determining gender is a big issue - in my opinion, determining the cause of these miscarriages is a much, much bigger issue than gender. I think it's probably very low priority in your doctor's office, in a case where there is a history of puzzling miscarriages, to determine gender.
Are they cooperating with other tests to insure this pregnancy continues?
My doctor was the same! They wouldn't do gender until 23/24 weeks. We ended up paying to get the gender At 18 weeks.
They havent ordered one yet. But I found out I'm having a little girl.
If you are going to have an amniocentesis anyway, you can request a gender analysis, but they won't do anything invasive just for the purpose of knowing the gender.
Many docters have strict policys they choose to follow for what they will do. If you can afford it I would do a 3D scan on your own. It's well worth it and you can even get the heartbeat in a teddy bear as a keepsake. I've had 4 miscarriages and was never able to find out the gender with any I understand how hard it is. I hope everything works out for you this time.
No idea. Havent had any prenatal care this pregnancy and tomorrow is my first appointment there. I already know why I miscarry. The first time I was having twins at 15 and my body couldnt handle it, along with malnutrition. The second time I took a hard fall and my placenta detatched. I just want to know what it is incase I miscarry again.
My insurance would cover a 3D. But what I dont get is why they wont do a FCA. Thats guaranteed positive gender identification at 10 weeks.
Thanks for your response. Both miscarriages I had happened after 13 weeks. The first was 15 and the second was 14. I've already had a threatened miscarriage with this one, so I'm really wanting to know what it is just in case. I really hope I can get them to check!
Pay for a 3d ultrasound then. Your doctor probably wants to wait because things are better developed at 20 weeks for when they look at the organs and what not.
Usually miscarriage is up until 13weeks unless you have some medical problems.
So ease your stress right there.
Some offices don't do a gender till 20 weeks because they'll get an accurate result and won't have to check again. For example if they check you now they'll do it again at 20-21weeks to make sure it was right the first time. And some don't like to do that. I don't see the problem but all drs are different especially ultrasound techs I have one like that and she gets on my nerves.