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Worst day ever

I had my anatomy scan today and my mother ruined it completely for me. She TOLD me my brother was coming with me my boyfriend and her FIVE minutes before she picked us up to go. On tip of that he complained about everything and acted like it was such a chore. And on top of that we almost didn't get an ultrasound because of miscommunication with a substitute doctor while my doctor was on vacation. I cried in the hallway until I got a new order for an ultrasound today. And then on top of that we got another guess on gender. Both guesses being a girl. And they said we won't be getting another ultrasound. I don't want to keep calling my baby an it. So what can I do as far as options to know for sure? I'm so upset and hurt all over and just want to cry.
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*she complained
4251679 tn?1370305531
You can pay for a 3d ultrasound they're really accurate and pretty neat cuz you see your babies features more clearly. Or you can call around schools with students who are training they'll do em for free because its all hands on practice for them.
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Can you maybe go get a 3d/4d ultrasound? Or try a college that has an ultrasound tech program sometimes they can do it for free.
4850939 tn?1370543309
Anytime u get a gender scan it pretty much a guess since its not 100% sure till baby is born but I bet its a girl since theyve told u twice it was a girl I understand about not being able to wait to know the only thing u can really do I pay out of pocket for an ultrasound good luck :)
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You can buy an ultrasound. Some cost as low as 100 dollars depending on the kind and how long you want the appointment. Do you have any pics?? Im not certified but I'm in school for obstetric sonography I'd love to take a gander!!! Do you have instagram or something??
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have a 4d scan I did on my 1st and on tgis one loved them x
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You can have a 4d u/s it will cost out of pocket but for me completely worth it
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