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a q for teen moms

I um....im a teen mother im young but i wont say my age for safety reasons...and...i was wondering if anyone could maybe coach me through this pregnancy?....i have no mother or father to help ones gone the other diddnt want me....anyone?....
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973741 tn?1342342773
Sweetie, if you are really young without any parents or guardians and no partner, I am thinking you need someone to coach you no only on the pregnancy ins and outs but how to survive as a mother after the baby is here.  Like where you are going to live with a baby, how you are going to support yourself and the baby, how you'll continue school (please continue school), etc.  Those things are very important to consider and to work on in pregnancy.  good luck
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I'm a teen mom I got pregnant at 15 had my healthy baby boy a month after I was 16. I'm now expecting my second baby in September an I'm only going to be 18. But if the father forced you to have sex you should report him BC he could being force others as well. But you can have soda just limit it an drink plenty of water. Congrats on the pregnancy if you need anything you can inbox me.
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8856671 tn?1404143983
I can help!!! Inbox me anytime :)
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Thank you all so much for yalls support.
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Message me! I had my first at 16, and I had her natural and breastfed despite what doctors and family said I could handle. I won't lie and say it will be easy, but its worth it.
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Please message me. I have no problem answering any questions. I had my first son at 19. I'm now 23 and 5 weeks pregnant with (surprise) baby #3.
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Its okay:) I'm going to be a teen mom too. In on the same boat. Everything will work out the way its suppose too:) good luck!
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Feel free to inbox me whenever! Im 18 and 20 weeks pregnant doing this on my own. Though the father of my child didnt force me i have been in that situation as well. Right now im working on biulding up my young mommy network
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9219060 tn?1406503585
HEY . its amazing i understand your story if u need help u can inbox me
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Everyone says to limit the coffee and to not.drink also of dark soda like a cup a day. Don't eat raw fish  other than that there's not really anything u can't eat and on the forced part
.I u report it and they find the guy or if you know the guy he will be forced to pay child support and depending where.u live there are programs and stuff for under aged moms go ahead and msg me if you want to talk more iv been there a few times so I get you an I understand you not wanting to say your age although a lot of us are supportive a lot of people here are rude. Congratulations :) hope your pregnancy goes good
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9677729 tn?1411047370
Hey im a teen mom too totally under stand th situation... I was in a simalar one  before this pregnacy but ended up misscarry :(  this app is amazing with some the people on it. U can ask any questions they will answer it within a hour or so. If u need any help or advice u can
kik me :Bambia
Im also 11 weeks too :)
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Well that's something serious if he forced you into having sex report it I mean I would and it doesn't matter how young you are there so many girls out there that get pregnant young your not the only one and about coffee and soda the docs say not to drink it cuz of the caffeine they way drugs are worth it cuz when you go into labor the pain gets real and then some change there mind about having the baby natural and about you gaining 38 lb sounds like a lot to be only 11 weeks are you seeing a doctor?
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10005815 tn?1453762475
I'm also a teen mom, had my first at 16. Every bit of it was worth doing it all over again and I'm now pregnant with my second baby. I also wanted to go natural but my dr told me that if I decided that and if further into labor I change my mind it will be to late. You can message me if you need to. I'll tell you like my grandmother told me with my first pregnancy "you ain't the first and you won't be the last" being a teen mother. *hugs*
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Im 11 weeks today and i just need to know whats bs about the wife tales like no coffee and no soda whats true and whats not and if its normal that i gained like 38 lbs. And i need someone to talk to the father of my baby forced me into sex and i have no partner to help me through this, i want to go natural but everyone i talk to says that the drugs are worth it but i dissagree.
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You can message me if you need. I got pregnant at 14. Its hard. But worth it.
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Watever help u need we will help
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How far along are you? What questions do you have?
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Were all here if you need us .. just ask . And no one is here to judge you , we all make mistakes , we just have to learn from them . Everything happens for a reason .
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9442948 tn?1406816451
I can help,, message me if you need:)
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Whatcha need help with hun
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