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7732297 tn?1397446837

am i crazy or what?

I really dont trust my bf but there is this older woman that lives in the upper apartment from us and she is constantly asking my boyfriend to help her with stuff like she wants to borrow things but only when he is home. She needs helping moving something and she smokes weed and asks him to go get it for her because he knows a guy. Its seriously annoying and she has come to my house at 11pm at night like 3times and asked him for random things. Ive told him that i dont want him helping her or even speaking to her and ive asked her to not come by at night but she just came by again and asked him if he had a hammer to use. I went off on him and he is mad at me like im wrong. Uhh!!
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If some woman was going to my fiance all hours and needing random things i would tell her to f off and get her own man. Thats your man, not hers. And if your man wants to be a ***** about it i would tell him its me or her. Or just move out of the apartment building
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so I talked to my husband about this post.. n he says that either your mans smoking pot with the old lady or he's cheating on you with her...

Cuz I asked him if we were in the situation... he flat out told me if it was him its fishy enough he would probably be cheating on me if we were in that situation...

And honestly me and my husband have been in this situation.. except I was NOT pregnant it was the first time I ever dated him he cheated on me with the older ***** next door
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7732297 tn?1397446837
No not yet. Thats why i havent said anything i know if i dont do it soon ill just flip out on her and be a complete bxtch
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Have you decided what you are gonna say?
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7732297 tn?1397446837
I havent spoken to her yet but im gone all day from 2pm-11pm so he could still be talking to her. Uh im so frustrated. And today when i talked to my boyfriend again he pretty much told me im crazy for asking him not to speak to her.
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7720624 tn?1402712283
Tell her with class and a bit of sarcasm!
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7720624 tn?1402712283
An older women knows better and should know to come to you.and ask you for whatever not your bf! You can then ask him! And if she been pregnant she should know that it is even more of a disrespect! BOTTOM LINE SHE KNOWS WHAT THE H SHE IS DOING!
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7732297 tn?1397446837
Thank you again ladies i really needed to vent and now that i know its not just my pregnancy hormones making me feel this way im definitly gonna talk to her:)
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7720624 tn?1402712283
Im 34 and pregnant and can do **** myself and i dont feel like im old. So yes a women that age woul definitely pursue a younger man! If i was single I would but not a taken man. But a lot of older women are DESPERATE!
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yeah check her old ***... age dont matter ..she may got a thang for young men...
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7732297 tn?1397446837
Well when i flipped out on my bf about it i told him to stop speaking to her and if he wants to continue to do so he can go live with her but he just said "really your this upset over a hammer" but its not just the hammer its her nonstop neediness like go away lady.
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If u already flipped out on ur man, next step is to tell her off :)
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4503521 tn?1400858886
Your* lol o lord
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4503521 tn?1400858886
I tell her politely if you come to my house again asking for things like a hammer iI'm going to use upside your head lol jk. No where is the respect especially from our bf he needs to tell her. Why would he risk his freedom buying her drugs umm no mam. Who comes to someone's house at all hours of the night no mam. I would tell him look if you go over there again u can pack up with Martha Stewart and put up beds and whatever else lmao.
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Yeah that is pretty weird...
And why would she be using a hammer at 11pm at night. Wth?
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Well. Why does she need help? She's not old, she can still walk, she can still move her bed right? Lol your pregnant and you don't ask anyone for help late at night? Lol she just wants your man, she couldve asked other people.
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Just because she is older it doesn't mean she is mischievous and a sha*k.... put her in her place tell her she is not welcome at yours and the next she comes by the police will be called....
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7732297 tn?1397446837
Yeah he would be upset but he just doesnt see my views.
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He wouldn't like it if some guy asked you to help him like if the guy had a cat & asked you to bath it
Lolol oh thing I could think of. But he would be jealous & mad to. Put the old lady in her spot
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7732297 tn?1397446837
Idk im gonna have to stop being nice. I was being nice just because she is older so i was taught to respect my elders but geesh she should know better.
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8106960 tn?1396643389
That situation is not right. What would a woman need a hammer late at night and would he think its okay to help another woman in her apt late at night? Why is she always bothering him?
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Lol why is she moving her bed upstairs at 11 pm.
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Next time she comes over I would tell yet your bf isn't home and shut the door in her face
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You need to put her in her place mama!
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