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1352892 tn?1338217905

am i the only one who dosnt get to eat what she craves???

am i the only ones whos hubby dosnt give a rats a** about what im craving im 19 weeks pregnant i have had 3 craving in that whole time and not one have i got to eat !!!! ive been craving long john silvers for 4 days now and i told him its driving me crazy its all i think about i can taste it and he has the nerve to buy chines because he was craving it !!!! i dont work cuz im on bed rest and since its his money he never gives me any and he chooses to spend it how he wants but wtf what i want only is $7 grrrrrrrrrrrr
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1271927 tn?1310580362
With my first pregnancy I wanted a salad from Outback so darn bad. DH refused to get it, but then again we didn't know I was preggo....and he was having a hard time justifying $12 on a salad! Now this time around he is sure to let me eat what ever I want, and he has run out at midnight to pick up a naval orange for me, oh and ran out again at 6 am to get another one....
The only thing I had a hard time getting him to do was to stop cooking hashbrowns on Saturday morning....it made me want to vomit. After 3 weeks or so, he finally gave it up.
I am SO lucky to have a great hubby - he isn't perfect, but he really tries to make me happy. For all of you out there that are having a hard time with your man, make a list of pros and cons, then decide what you can and can not live without. Maybe that will help you decide what is best for you in your situation.
Good luck gals!
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461781 tn?1285609481
well my husband doesn't go out in the middle of the night to get me ice cream but he tries to get me the stuff that I crave and most of the time he guesses and doesn't get it right.  My last pregnancy I acted like a little girl when he bought me ice cream that I didn't want and I started yelling at him, he got really mad and it was really stupid of me because he was trying to help me out eventhough he got the wrong kind. My hormones took over instead of my brain.
Anyway, don't let your hormones take over.  But your husband sounds like a dumbasss, it doesn't take him much effort to get you a $7 sandwich.  I think you should try to find a way to leave his sorry a$$
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1352892 tn?1338217905
thanks ladies i love talking to you guys it gives me a feeling of support through this pregnancy
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I read your other post on Amanda's post. Is man u have does not deserve you! Both ur children are better off with out this man in ur life!
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1123420 tn?1350561158
No she isnt the one that got kicked out of the car.

But anyway, yea I think that is totally not right, I wanna punch your hubby in the face and take you to the best place to eat!!!  Ugh, i feel so bad for you, I thought my Db was bad, thats the one thing he stressed about when i was pregnant, was making sure I got WHATEVER i wanted to eat. If I was craving taco bell, and he only had 5 dollars i got it, and he made a snadwhich,, i got any drink i wanted, any candy anything, and that is exactly how you should be treated.  

My heart breaks to read the stuff you post :(
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1330108 tn?1333677304
I don't eat what a crave. I crave things like cookies and other stuff that isnt healthy. I've always eaten healthy prior to pregnancy and so I'm not going to stop just bc I'm pregnant. Even when I crave things if my husband wants something else we have what he wants. Afterall it's his money. It doesn't bother me one bit. But it sounds like this is just fuel to the fire of an already rocky relationship. If it was just this I'd say it's not that big of a deal but it seems that your partner is always doing something. I don't mean any offense by this just saying what I've observed
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1035252 tn?1427227833
Ugh hon aren't you the one who got kicked out of the car a few days ago? this guy sounds immature, selfish, and borderline abusive....I wish you didn't make yourself put up with this....you're pregnant and deserve some respect and dare I say...you deserve to be spoiled a little. if he can afford chinese food then it's not about not being able to afford it..he's just being selfish.

I'm sorry...this issue goes beyond refusing to get you what you are craving (which is rude enough in itself) and he sounds like a total jerk :(.
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