I'm waiting to name my baby until after she is born. We have names we like but we are not picking any until we get to touch, hold, hear and smell our little one. You do what you want, it's other people that are being selfish and immature by trying to make you feel guilty for a decision you've made!
We tell everyone but the middle name is a secret. We don't care if they want to know right now or not. Its your choice. I say jeep it a secret. People just get upset when they can't know everything.
We only told once we knew the sex, and our other potential names are secrets! People are much less judgemental if you know the sex and it's for su re the baby name :)
I actually kept mine a secret until we revealed the gender. It was a big reveal because all our friends and my husband family wanted to know and they kept asking.
I only tell people who ask
Only mine and my partners family know not all of them just some everyone else can wait until baby is born x
If you already named baby why not tell them? ?
Personally I wouldn't name until baby is born and healthy ... but that's just me.