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anyone else having a SUPER low key new years?

me and my boyfriend didn't really make any plans.. i was never a big fan of doing something exciting on new years.. i was never really a drinker prior to getting pregnant either.. my boyfriend is pretty low key as well & hes been busy with work and we both had completely forgot it was new years.. we didn't have plans.. i figured i'd make some chilli and if some of his friends come over, at least they could eat... and they could chill & game & smoke.. the usual for them.

i made my chilli and my man invited his friend over. 2 hours later, his friend didn't show.. which is normal.. a bunch of stoners, it just does it to you, i guess. my boyfriend called him friend and he was at another friends hanging with a bunch of other guys... so they invited my boyfriend and i over.. obviously i'm not going... there very sweet to make sure i don't breathe in the smoke.. always having a fan on or the door and window open.. but i still don't like being around that much smoke... so i'm not going...

my boyfriend was on the phone telling his buddies hes going to put his jacket on and leaves.. and then asks me if its alright if he goes... sigh. obviously he wants to go.. and i'm so boring.. i'm literally going to eat my face off and watch friends all night.. he kept telling me that if i didn't want him to go, he wouldn't.. and how he didn't want me to be alone on new years... but i know if i told him not to go, he would resent me and probably sulk all night... so i told him to go.. and i really had to hold back the tears.. i don't like the thought of being alone tonight.. i know we werent really going to do much but i'm sad and lonely... and i'm 21.. and this is how i'm spending my first new years on my own. he kept telling me that i'm going to be mad at him when he comes home, and i probably will be! i am mad.. but sad. UGH!
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3145189 tn?1343157421
Aww. Hope he made it. I was nesting as the ball dropped.... Mopping the floor. My hubby came to kiss me and I nearly took his head off with the mop. Lmao. He's mad and sleeping.
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My daughter fell ill yesterday and then tonight my hubby started getting sick so we are all home and in bed.
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Lol hubby cooked dinner and then took me to cold stone. its our first new years just the two of us. but at least he's here with me(: this is our fourth new years together<3
hope yours comes home for new years midnight kiss<3
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Totally feel your pain
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I'm laying on the couch on here and my husband is in the game room with his brother playing ps3...wooo hoooo lol...hope your night gets better! Maybe he'll miss you an come home early :)
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4578340 tn?1356736040
well my husband and 3 kids and I moved 4 mths ago to Madera from OC left all my family over there so this Christmas I spent it with his 2 sisters and us and today we just ate tacos and are going to bed by 10pm I am sad cause I am use to being around my fam playing beer pong eating drinking tequila shots showing the love so BIG difference I am not sure if I could be prego so don't wan't to drink in case but I do feel very depressed cause no one of my family members are close 5 hours away then I am recovering from back surgery that I got in Nov.12.2012 Well girls things happen for a reason but no worries hope this year is better wish you guys the best and HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!
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3185867 tn?1348434443
I might as well be alone :( i have my husband and were at his buddies house n there drinking n playing poker and i have no idea to play so i get to just set here whyll him and his friends doo all that n it *****... I dont have ne friends that live near me because i moved away from home with him. Im pregnant so i cant drink. And all ohave is u ladies :(
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Ive always spent new years alone so it doesnt bother me too much. Drink some OJ and get your baby moving... that'll keep you from feeling too lonely :-) And ftm I feel ya Im working 10p to 6a today.
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3112100 tn?1379614659
Im alone too -_- my daughters dads havin a lil get together/ party at his house.. I would have went cuz its at his house but nope he didnt even tell me.. I seen on facebook.. I havent even talkef to him since 930 this morning.. Oh well watecer..
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4565938 tn?1357880653
Asleep by 10:30pm (Australia) =)
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That would personally really bother me, I would be sad and upset too. I just feel like we become mothers the moment our test is positive and the fathers should be the same. If we can't go out drinking and partying daddy should be staying home with us! I'm working till 8 and then spending a quiet evening with my fiance. No real plans. He has a drinking problem that we're working through so he's staying away from alcohol, so really wasn't any question whether he was staying home with me.
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3828469 tn?1358462325
I'm 21 too and the past two years I've been alone on new years because I work the next day and my husband was in the field and on deployment. Don't be mad at him if you didn't want him to go you should have told him so he asked you and you said no so now you have to suck it up. It's just new years you will have plenty more together when you're not pregnant
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I'm alone too! My fiancée went to Chicago to party and I'm kicking myself in the butt for telling him too. Super sad and lonely and worried and can't stop crying :(
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I'm going to be alone tonight too, my daughters dad has this holiday with my daughter per court order...prego and alone on new years, makes for a teary night :/...im.sorry ur feeling bad like this bc it's no way to be :(
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1961938 tn?1398718101
If he knows your going to be bad he should not go. He should go without you anyways. You planned a nice enough evening, he should want to bring in the new year with his family.
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4191640 tn?1361174727
I'm goin' to be alone as well. My boyfriend works overnights and all of my friends are older than me and they're gonna be drinkin' while me bein' pregnant and under-aged, can't do that. So I'm gonna be bored at home watching Heroes and stuffing my face alone. Saddest and loneliest New Years I've had lol. Least I'll have my unborn son to talk to. =]
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I just got called into work cause people are calling off I have to be there at 11 :( we didn't have anything planned we don't drink just me and my hubby with our doggie but still I wanted to bring in the new year with them so I'm gonna call as the ball is dropping to tell them I love them lol pretty upsetting  
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Yeah ill be alone too. Bf broke up with me a couple days ago and we had planned to just spend time together. It was the first time eitger of us had someone to kiss when the clock hit 12 ya know? And now I get to cry and watch tv lol I hope he comes home before 12 to surprise you so you can be together :)
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