I used to only be comfy when my husband would spoon me but now my belly is big and I'm only comfy when I spoon him and he loves when our son kicks him in the back!!
My bf will put his hand on my stomach and run it to relax our son and when that doesn't work I'll hear him talking to him trying to get him to calm down lol
Our little prince moves the most when my bf is around.
My son only seems to wanna kick when his daddy is around. It might just be the baby trying to interact. Who knows what on his adorable little mind. Try laying a different way. Me and my boyfriend have rotated to where he is behind me. That way he can rub my belly when the baby starts to kick.
My baby actually calms down when I cuddle with my hubby. But because the belly is getting big, it's actually more comfortable for him to spoon me than me spooning him, haha
I notice when I lean on something like a counter top my baby girl will notice and start to hit it more. It's like she knows something is against her and idk if babies try to feel it or push it away, but it's pretty cool she's aware of it.
No he doesn't avoid snuggling but our son does kick alot when we do snuggle it's like he knows. My boyfriend gets a thrill out of it.