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3109932 tn?1347067940

baby's father

I had two sex partners in april. I had sex on april 6 with guy number one and on april 23 or 24 I had sex with guy number two then on April 25 I had my period so is it the second guy child or the first guy child please don't leave rude comments.
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3109932 tn?1347067940
Okay i know who the baby's father is so thanks ladies for yall help.
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I don't know if you mentioned earlier why you didn't have an u/s earlier, but ultrasounds done later in the pregnancy are not as accurate to the ones done in the early first trimaster, because your baby now can be measuring smaller/bigger (behind/ahead) by days even a few weeks. Therefore not a reliable due date or conception date can be drawn from this.
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3109932 tn?1347067940
Okay.
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Or yu can wait until after yer ultrasound and see if that gives yu a better estimate
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3109932 tn?1347067940
Okay.
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Simple tell them both and then do a DNA test when the baby is born
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3109932 tn?1347067940
No it didn't fail I just totally forgot to mention that part
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Did the protection fail with the first? I'd think it was guy number two if the protection didn't fail. My fiance and i only used condoms for three years and never had a pregnancy occur. So if that's the protection you used, and it didn't rip i'd place my bets on guy number two.
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3109932 tn?1347067940
The first dude use protection and the second one didn't.
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well either way whenever your period was you will never know unless you just get a DNA test. You don't want to always be wondering. Good Luck!
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3158998 tn?1358542044
More than likely its guy # 2...
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3158998 tn?1358542044
More than likely its guy # 2...
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3158998 tn?1358542044
More than likely its guy # 2...
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3109932 tn?1347067940
Thats was my last period so thats why i told my doctor that but whatever.
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Honestly it can go both ways. the dates are to close. I know not knowing can be detrimental, but the only way to find out is by doing a DNA test. No judgment here! Wish you and the baby the best!
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3109932 tn?1347067940
So I should be 20 weeks?
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That's what i am trying to explain to you. even though you did not have sex in March, it still goes by that because that was your last period. The one in April could not have been a real period because you were obviously pregnant already. Your Dr. only goes by what they are told. So if you tell them you had a period in April, thats what he will go by.
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3109932 tn?1347067940
I didn't have sex in March only in april so maybe I did have a regular period in april i can't remember. the doctor didn't ask me about my March period just my april period so that's what my doctor going by.
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1900942 tn?1462421460
Well than I would wait and see how baby is measuring to see if your due date changes...once you get the u/s and babys measurements it will be easier to conclude who is the father...I will be happy to help after your u/s if you need me too...good luck love :))
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yes but if the April period was not a real "period" the Dr. should be going by your March period. that does not mean you got pregnant in March that is just how they calculate it. They go by your last period which would actually mean you are farther along.
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3109932 tn?1347067940
Yes it's going to be my first u/s
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3109932 tn?1347067940
My doctor is going by my last period in april which was on the 25 not march if i got pregnant in march I would be farther along i wouldn't be 16 weeks
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2020005 tn?1628125976
If she's measuring behind me, and I didn't get pregnant until April 27th (and that I'm 100% sure on) she couldn't be pregnant by guy number 1, or she'd be farther along than I am.
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It could be Guy number one then. It doesn't make sense that you would have only been five weeks when you went to the Dr. because it goes by your last period which would have been in March. have they told you that you are measuring large? I think you really will not for sure know without a DNA test because if you go by the Dr. saying you were five weeks then it would be guy number 2 but if you go by your last period in March it very well could have been guy number 1. Sorry I am no help!
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