beach

[mommyTobe_12]

everyone's pretty much making me feel like **** cos I wanna go to the beach tomorow. it's suppose to be 92, where I'm at. I know I can't have my tummy exposed for too long, and I need to put enough sunscreen ( which I have whenever I go to the beach ) and stay plenty hydrated
does it make me a bad mom to wanna go ? when there's no ac in my house and being by the water won't be as hot. plus I can actually go IN the water, and not stay in te sun so long ?
I really have been sitting here for a good almost hr crying my eyes out, cos everyone's making it seen like I don't care about my son.

[babybonita]

Enjoy yourself, you'll be fine @ the beach. Ignore them, enjoy your day!

[mommyTobe_12]

Exactly, I understand their only looking out. but it's too a point where their words are hurtful to me.
I'm just dying to finally go swimming !

[Sasha80]

Those that are judging you, need to find something better to do.  I went to the beach with my second (she was born Aug) almost everyday otherwise we were outside sitting in the heat playing in the sprinkler.  You can't put yourself in a body bubble just cause you're pregnant.  I don't get people sometimes.  

[mommyTobe_12]

thanks ladies , you really did make me feel better. it's a bit cooler near the water here too. so t think that helps.

[brit0585]

In a few weeks it will be forgotten. I honestly wouldn't worry about it. Go have fun. Wish I could go to the beach but its cold in oregons coasts

[mommyTobe_12]

apparently I don't care about my baby bcos I wanna go on a hot day :-/ I know what to do to keep myself safe. and I know when too much is too much. it just upsets me, that my entire pregnancy, this is one thing I realllllly wanna do and I basically get hated for it. that's what feels like is going on anyways.

[brit0585]

Thats silly yes you can go to the beach. You shouldn't feel bad about that. Like you said stay hydrated and maybe take an umbrella so you have some shade.